My girl always tells me that she dont deserve me but I feel as if I dont deserve her.We work together and at first I would never talk to her or ever let her see me look at her. All the guys would try to talk to her but I would leave her alone.
When I finally started talking to her (because she got some of my paper work by accident) I was just cool with her. I would be very blunt and honest with her. I started to like her but never showed it. I would pick on her and make fun of her but just playing around and I never would follow her like all the other guys. I would sometimes even ignore her and she would come and look for me.
There are other guys who have given her things.THis one guy would always tell her She looked beautiful everyday. I never complimented her once.A guy once left a note on her car and I said " I wish someone would leave me a note" she laughed about it.A week later I get a note on my car from her and the rest is history.I did nothing so why do I get to have her?
2006-09-07 11:46:04 · 9 answers · asked by rock_roll_musicman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ah, but you did. You cared enough to watch her response to the other guys...you saw she didn't want to be pursued, and so you didn't. She picked up on that and was attracted to the fact that you cared for HER feelings more than you did yours.
2006-09-07 11:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by BarbwireNRoses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, think about it. You did NOT act like "all of the other guys". Normal = boring.
Humor, self-confidence (you were willing to be blunt), and a little indifference (girls like a challenge) probably made you appear attractive to her. Instead of acting desperate, like all of the guys following her around, you acted as if you could take her or leave her (independence = sexy).
Don't worry if you are not good enough for her. Why wouldn't you be? You are just as good as anyone else.
2006-09-07 18:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey
Dont worry about what you have done or not done....
You have her tat is the important thing. So enjoy everyday and every minute of your life coz you never know wats written in the future. Also i think since you like her start to show her some signs tat you care... dont continue to ignore her. you have a good thing going so dont spoil it by being insecure
all the best
2006-09-07 18:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by nice_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold her with both hand TIGHT and give her a big hug for me! You have what I and everyone else wants!!! You started off with an "A" and now all you have to do is keep it. Don't take her for granted and be kind and nice to her... like an precious jewel. Try from now on... to make yourself worthy. Don't tell yourself that you are not worthy... MAKE yourself worthy by giving to her what she seems to have given you.
2006-09-07 18:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no clue, but maybe she liked you, saw that you had no balls and decided that if she wanted to be with you she had to do all the work. She will get bored and leave if you keep this crap up. Stand up like a man and do nice things for her and tell her how you feel. geesh
2006-09-07 18:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't understand you do you need her or not?
but she likes you coz you don't do like others she is a type of people who want to have people around her admiring her all the time once you become like others she won't be interested in you at all.
2006-09-07 18:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like youre intellegent and thoughtful. Thats why
2006-09-07 18:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all girls love what they cant have, it's a well known fact. she went after you because she thought you didnt like her. My advice, go with the flow.
2006-09-07 18:51:08 · answer #8 · answered by lmabz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you.
2006-09-07 18:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋