im really confused, because i've heard im, too mean, too nice, too short, too tall, i mean give me a general idea of what you girls WANT.
2006-09-07 11:28:08 · 19 answers · asked by Rob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends what kind of girl. if it's a good gurl, then she would want a guy that could protect her, make her laugh, make her feel comfortable, not ABSOLUTELY not a player, and cute!! but if it's a BAD gurl, then she would want a PLAYER, hustler, gangster, and son on. hope i helped : )
2006-09-07 11:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion girls look for a lot of different things for a lot of different reasons. Sorry it is a bit confusing but very true. I know as l am a female and we can be very hard to read at times, but in all honesty we only really want someone to love us the way we love them, honesty and faithfullness also play a big part . If you have had girls tell you all those different things perhaps they were really just not interested and were trying not to hurt your feelings. Dont worry when the time is right you will meet the right girl and things will just all fall into place. Until then though Good Luck with your search. The main thing is as long as you have fun and no-one gets hurt it's all good isn't it REALLY. Be Happy.
2006-09-07 18:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All girls are different, that's why you've heard so many different responses. I personally want a guy with a good job, a dependable vehicle and a good sense of style. He has to have a good sense of humor, open-minded, laid-back, respectable. I don't want a guy who has nothing to offer, someone that I would have to support. I want a guy who likes me for me, and my kids, and is willing to put forth an effort to show that he likes me, no games, no f*cking around. As for the "too mean, too nice" I want a guy who is nice to everyone but mean when he needs to be - like if he needs to protect me, he can.
2006-09-07 18:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by *♥T0mb0ygirlygurl♥* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To say that I'm looking for a guy who is "attractive" is to say nothing at all, because what's attractive to me may or may not be attractive to someone else. I personally find intelligence attractive; someone who can express themselves verbally and in writing, someone who is aware of and interested in many things, a well-rounded individual - these are the winning qualities in my book. He has to be financially successful and emotionally stable. I'm more of a practical person, and am looking for the same in a mate. He has to be a leader, because I tend to be a follower. But bottom line is... it's all about the interpersonal "chemistry".
2006-09-07 18:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myself, Someone who treats them like a lady, with respect. Doesn't try to get into their pants and up their shirt. Doesn't stare at her boobs. Maybe asks where she might like to go, if she says she doesn't know then make a suggestion and talk about it. Be confident, but not all about yourself. Don't ask her any questions about sex or what she likes in a man. Just take it slow. We don't get much of this anymore.
PS. If you don't push for sex you more likely to get it. Be patient, it may not happen on the first few dates. We like sex more if we don't feel like we have to. Men can't figure this out.
2006-09-07 18:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by JustAGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me myself likes a guy that is taller than me I like a guy to be nice but not too nice to where I think theres something wrong with him
2006-09-07 18:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically, its the all over...meaning your personality.....that speaks for everything...if a woman or girl only likes you cause of your outside appearance that means she is just superficial, she only wants a "boy toy" to show off. she will treat you like a slave of hers....so stay away from girls like that they aren't worth it...look for someone who has the same interests as you and someone you can relate to. good luck and remember there is someone out there waiting just for you:)
2006-09-07 18:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by LUVINKC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I want in a guy would be someone that is nice, sweet, kind,caring, forgiving, and can show me that he cares for me, and I would like my guy to be at least 5foot and 7inches, with dark hair.
2006-09-07 18:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by angelfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it differs from a person to another but about myself i like a boy to have a great mind which can understand me and solve problems which face us, this is what i really care for.
2006-09-07 18:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want a guy confident enough not to have to ask these quiestions.It all comes down to GAME. What you say to them and how you say it.
2006-09-07 18:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by rock_roll_musicman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋