have sex with your significant other? i really want to get my relationship off to the right start. i don't want to give it up too soon but i don't want to drag it out either, ya know? and i'm not a virgin i have a kid, i just really like this guy and don't want our relationship to get off on the wrong foot. i just want to know what other people think.
2006-09-07 11:14:32 · 25 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only you will know when ur ready
2006-09-07 11:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you are sure that what you're feeling isn't "lust". Take your time and get to know him well. You may not even want to have sex with him once you get to know him...lol Seriously, don't be in a rush because your judgment can become cloudy if the physical aspect of a relationship is the dominate part too soon.
2006-09-07 18:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT WAIT WAIT. I'm not saying forever, but a man, no matter what man, he will always think whatever you did with him you are/were capable of doing with someone else. Also, make him earn it. Your body is precious. Make him know that having sex with you is a privilege and something that the two of you should think about. And thinking takes some time. Besides, masturbating is innocent, it can hold you over for a few!
2006-09-07 18:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by Just Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let nature take it's course, but make sure you communicate beforehand what your hopes are for how it will enhance a relationship together. If he's not interested in sex for more than gratification then realize what it means and decide yes or no accordingly, based on your own desires.
2006-09-07 18:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by pixiechick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's a chance at a relationship, sex will come within a month of dating. If I am not feeling the girl, no sex within a week and she's gone.
2006-09-07 18:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by Grown Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My rule was to wait one month! But we'd have to have gone out at least four times for that month. This way, you get to know him and not let the sex overrule your sound judgement. He could be someone you only thought you knew.
2006-09-07 18:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by Tonya L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time, Ms. Rikki,...never let 'em have it TOO damn easy. You want him to get to know YOU, not just how good you are in the sack. And hey, if this is gonna get physical, he's gotta be able to like your kid, too,...some guys don't..
2006-09-07 18:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by longhair140 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you REALLY like the dude and want to have an actual relationship...3-4th date. I wouldn't stretch out any longer than that...not in this day and age anymore.
2006-09-07 18:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I try not to analyze too much. If the chemistry is there, then why ignore it? Sometimes striking while the iron is hot is the best route to take.
2006-09-07 18:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until Marriage
2006-09-07 18:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by LB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait till you feel the time is right and you feel as though the relationship is worth more than just sex.
2006-09-07 18:17:35 · answer #11 · answered by whitey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋