There a girl that i LOVE and shes BEAUTIFUL and nice and sweet and kind and caring and did i mention shes beautiful, and were both crhistain and i LOVE her and i dont care what any of you say, (i do care just listen) i LOVE her and i dont care if ya'll say nobody finds true love when there a freshmen cause i have, and i know for a FACT that she is the ONE that God has chosen for me, and i wrote her a note today (thurs), i haven't given it to her yet but this is exactly what it says "Ciara, I really like you and i think your wonderful, most guys wouldn't just come out and tell a girl how they feel about them but im not most guys, and I would be honoured if you would go to the military ball with me, write your answer on a note and give it to me and IF you would like to talk about it my number is (***)***-**** or if you ever wanna talk about anything or if you just want someone to talk to. Im really looking forward to it nd i hope you are too" Should i just give it to her or mak chngs1st?
2006-09-07 11:14:03 · 14 answers · asked by JesusFreak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The note said i lot more than that but i ran out of space and i wont go into great detail, PLEASE GIVE ME AS MUCH ADVICE AS POSSIBLE, should i make some changes first or keep it the way it is or what should i do?!?!
2006-09-07 11:18:16 · update #1
My new note will be based off of what ya'll say.
2006-09-07 11:29:53 · update #2
I know if that were me I would love to get something like that. The only thing I would change is the first two lines you sound a tad desperate so just cool it a bit. The whole thing with I really like you will leave her like a deer in headlights so your best off cutting that out. This is how I would want it if it were for me "Ciara I think your a wonderful person and I would be honored if you went to the military ball with me" short, sweet, simple, and to the point you can still leave the phone number though. So that's how I would say to write it just so that you won't leave her stunned. Hope I helped and good luck
2006-09-07 11:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT get all lovely and crazy romantic with her if she is not showing emotion towards you!!!! Even if you found someone you love, it does not mean they are meant for you. AND YES MOST GUYS WOULD TELL HOW THEY LIKE A GIRL, especially if she is good looking!
Here are some tips anyway to get her to like you :
1. Be self confident(don't be afraid to do anything)
2. Be very funny and flirt while slightly pushing her away.
3. talk to her friends and direct your attention not only at her but to everyone in the group.
4. Do NOT be fat (some girls like it but very very very few)
5. Do NOT put her on a pedestal, and think of her as some mighty goddess that you will never amount to(she is just a person also)
6. Be conscious and always look your best!
7. Do NOT call her unless you have gotten to that point in the relationship
8. Don't be obsessive about her, talk about normal things, not just about how pretty and perfect she is.
9. Do NOT be shy.
10. Be self confident.
11. Be yourself.
2006-09-07 20:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by Bass boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't write a long note full of your feelings.
If you can't ask her face to face, then write a short, "Would you please go with me to...?" with yes and no check-boxes.
If she says "yes" then take her and have a good time, but no big confessions.
CALM DOWN! You'll scare the poopy out of the poor girl. Just enjoy the evening. She'll get the idea that you are interested.
Next time, ask her out for a dinner or movie or something, but face-to-face.
And stop multi-posting hysterical "Answer my last question" posts forty-thousand times.
Calm down.
2006-09-07 20:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your notes just find it's so sweet,don't be nervous she'll say yes and I think it's good that you found true love just don't go to head over hills ok?Give it to her she'll be crazy not to say yes and return your feelings.
2006-09-07 18:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We women like to you guys talk to us personally, because it is proof of your security of yourselfs, not a letter. You tell her you are interested with her, and you would like to go out for know her better. Good luck
2006-09-07 18:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by DarthPuluca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you just tell her to her face like a man instead of writing notes like a boy?.
2006-09-07 18:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first "your" should be "you're". Otherwise it's fine. Isn't Ciara a beautiful name?
2006-09-07 20:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, you're insecure. Get a hold of yourself. Drop me a note if you need to.
2006-09-07 19:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by Lonely Soul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your answer on a note and give it to me and IF yeah deleat that just sign with your # and give it to her she'll call if she wants to talk obiously...think about it...what like shes gonna call you and not talk to you...however it is more attractive if you just talk to her human to human...hey adam did not write to eve I like you...Just talk to the gal...practice and see what happens...Good luck and god bless.
2006-09-07 18:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by "Chanel-o" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your letter sounds fine. You shouldnt worry so much.
2006-09-07 18:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by ThEoNeAnDoNlY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋