I was cheated by sevaral girls in my life. My age is 26 and now i really feel that its my fate to be cheated by every girl comming into my life. Should i think the same or should i go with this girl in girl out thing? I never get it what they really want? Can anyone tell me what is the real problem?
P.S : I must clear somethings. I m physicaly fine:). I don`t have any kind of attitude problems and i really respect woman.
2006-09-07 11:04:28 · 15 answers · asked by The Bad Sector 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just haven't met the right one yet evidently.
If you know you want a monogamous, long term relationship, don't hesitate to let the ladies know if it starts getting serious. This will weed out the "short time, but good time" gals and give the ones that are ready to get serious confidence in your intentions.
Don't automatically expect to be cheated on. If you think your lady is going to cheat on you, you will be suspicious and make accusations. Many women, just like men, figure if they are 'paying the price' by being accused or distrusted they might as well be having the fun.
If you just be yourself, have fun and pursue you own interests... in other words, don't try to 'impress' the girls you are interested in... the right one will come along! When you are in serious like with one, invite her along to do what you enjoy... If she is a good match, she will probably enjoy doing these things too. A good friendship is always the best foundation for a good relationship.
2006-09-07 11:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by toastposties 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy usually shoots for the same type of girl. If every girl you date cheats on your it may be a number of things.
a. It's them not you. You're at that age where women are either settled or aren't ready to settle. Have fun yourself.
b. As mentioned before you might be just dating the same type of girls ... personality wise.
c. I have to ask this: Did you ask 'em out while they were already seeing someone else?
d. It might be you. Most likely it isn't.
Are you still friends with these girls? If you are, just ask why?
Find out the problem and fix it, steer clear of the ones that don't seem so honest or loyal if those are the two things you're specifically looking for. Good luck, lol.
2006-09-07 11:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by auniquekind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to filter the girls that come into your life better. You have a lot of baggage going into any relationship, so you may want to deal with that before entering into another relationship. I've dated two men who had been previously cheated on. One could never fully trust me, even after 22 months, so I eventually had to break it off because it was taking such a toll on the relationship. My current boyfriend has also been cheated on, but he has dealt with that and decided very early on that I'm not her. You need to deal with the fact that you've been cheated on because if you suspect every girl that you date, it comes through in the way you treat them. You may not see how, and they may not realize that as the driving force, but it may push them away. But like I said, when you are ready to date again, take it slow and filter the girls. Only hold out for the best!
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2006-09-07 11:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lumburger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you then unless your not giving them the attention they want women are emotional and its hard for a guy to meet them on that level I wish I had someone like you because my boyfriend is never around I haven't cheated on him but I feel like he is trying to push me there but what I'm saying is that look for a girl that fits your well being and will love you and be faithful and be there for you no matter what those are the type that are hard to fined since you respect woman that's a plus in my book:)
2006-09-07 11:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by sc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're too nice to girls so therefore they feel as if they don't deserve you. Or maybe you just find all the mean girls that think its ok. I would suggest asking one of the girls that cheated on you what the problem is.
2006-09-07 11:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you mean by girl in girl out thing, but no, you shouldn't think every girl will cheat on you. You've just made bad choices in the ladies you've dated. I'm sure the right one will come along for you when you least expect it.
2006-09-07 11:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were cheated on by several girls, it is no wonder you are gun shy, but try to get over it because women like guys who are self-confident. Women love a guy who makes them feel secure, so try working on your self image and things should turn around. Good Luck!!
2006-09-07 11:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls do not like nice guys. Just continue to be yourself and treat each relationships different, do not go into the relationships thinking something bad will happen, just go into with on expectation. Be patience you will find the right one.
2006-09-07 11:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by Brezzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just a pushover so gals treat you that way get your confidence up they cheated on you for a reason, maybe they thought that you wouldnt care so much. A girl should want to need you...show them what they would be missing
2006-09-07 11:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by "Chanel-o" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you're picking the wrong girls. You're likely to keep doing so until you work out what's wrong with your choices.
My advice to you is to take a break for a while, be alone. After a couple of years, you might be ready to choose more wisely.
2006-09-07 12:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋