come on guys truth only ,you meet a good looking girl and then she drops a bomb she has 3 kids at home.do you run a mile,try it out and hope for the best or what?does older kids make it easier for a relationship?any one taken on step kids from hell?
2006-09-07 11:00:24 · 29 answers · asked by candyfloss 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bloody hell. run like the clappers. believe me lads . there will be another along soon, you dont know where its been.
2006-09-07 11:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by adventurerinsun 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I took on 3 at first they were great spent loads on the mother and someone else kids but the mother threw me out 4 times in a day and so on enough was enough. They are some good single dads and single mums out there, would you take on 3 kids and the dad
2006-09-07 19:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by BUDDXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single mums are amongst thebravest people i've come across. However, for a man, its difficult to walk into a new family which you had nothing to do with, especially if you plan to have a career or have kids of your own.
Im a good guy, so even ifshe was the hottest, nicest girl on the planet, i'd have to apologise and tell her im not ready for that challenge.
Im 19 btw.
2006-09-07 18:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by Michael S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with single mums i've had a ralationship with one and she was just with me so that i could help with the money side of thing if i met a single mum with 6 kids and she was able to stand on her to feet i'd be happy to give it a go but if like my ex she was just after the easy way out i wouldn't so it's not a qustion of wether or not a bloke would run a mile it's wether or not the women is in for the same reason you are
2006-09-09 04:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by dave_20385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a man but im a single mom with 3 sons. when i got divorsed i had the happiest time in my life - dating, travelling, more dating. never ever when i told that i had 3 kids a man was put off. they kept saying "really?i would have never guessed that. u look gorgeous" and then we went on with our conversation. just do not present it like "a bomb", it is normal to have children. now im married second time, after he proposed i told him like 1000 times whether he thought it through cos 3 kids is a hard job and requires a lot of money. he said yes.
so my advice do not present it like smth bad. u re independent woman , raising 3 children, u had guts to stand up for yourself not staying in unhappy relationship. u deserve respect. those who said "run from single mom" are cheap losers, u don't need them anyway. if a man loves u for what u re your children wouldn't be any obstacle. good luck. sorry for intruding into question for men
2006-09-08 02:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived with a single mum & her 4!!! yes count 'em 4 kids. The eldest was a girl who moved into her own flat with her b/f & had her own 2 kids, fantastic girl. She had 3 sons, the 2 oldest were fine most of the time, the youngest was 10 & once called the police saying I was hitting him because he was unhappy being disiplined by me for calling his mum a f****ng b**ch. I stayed with them until I found out she was a golddigger & had ripped me off but that hasn't put me off single mums at all, just made me more wary.
2006-09-07 18:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by Martin M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mate started seeing a single mum with either 3 or 4 kids,he took to them like theyre his own,they now have a baby on the way,ive never seen him happier,since he left his wife and moved in with the single mum,if you are fond enough of the woman i dont see what the problem his.
2006-09-07 19:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by Dave 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think single parent mums are superb in all that they do to provide for their children-however many there are in the family unit.So much heartache and the struggle to make ends meet-the tow rags that have upped and left(to another single mum in the next street more than likely!)really you can't take anything away from them on that score.Single parent dads are the exact same-funny they don't get noticed or mentioned as much...isn't it!?!?!
2006-09-07 18:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love them but couldn´t eat a whole one.... Sorry the truth is it´s not the mums that are the problem, it´s the men. They are still children themselves most of the time and as children hate to compete for mums attention. If the relationship is to ever work look for men and not children.
2006-09-08 13:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by Just me!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty i have no problem dating single parents, HOWEVER a few have been looking for Father Figures for there kids from the off and that can be a bit off putting to say the least. !
Would it cause a major problem, not really just be honest !
2006-09-07 19:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ross B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, is that allowed? That was 3 questions there. Listen pet, if you're some stunning gorgeous successful sexy woman, then I find out you have 3 kids, yer still the same sexy, etc. woman. If your a lazy cider swiggin foul mouthed hing thats fartin an scratchin your bits, its maybe not the kids, ye know. Also, if you are , pass me your details babee.
2006-09-07 18:08:36 · answer #11 · answered by Minjeeta 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋