Not fair Not Right?

Question

My boyfriend left out of town again but had his sister call me on the first of september saying he was in a hurry and forgot his cell phone if he really cared don't you think he can fined a way to call me himself from wherever he went here it is the 7th and still no call I have been going crazy in crying spells wondering if he is alright I wonder if he is pushing me away I didn't sleep around and all I have been is supportive of his habbits but I can't take this any more its breaking me big time what should I do I can't even get a hold of the guy to see how he is doing or to tell him I can't be with him because of this? Somebody plz give me some good advice

Answer 1

Take a deep breath. OK 2 or 3. When I don't have my cell phone I'm lost. All my numbers are stored in there. The only number I remember is my home number. When I'm away and have no cell phone I'm worse. I can't get people to call me cause I'm on the move and don't know where I'm going to be day to day. All I can suggest is hang in there, don't be angry when you see him next cause it will cause a break up. Just be really happy to see him, The sex will be magnificent! Good luck!

Answer 2

I was going to give the question a pass, as so many people were telling you to take the hint, until I read the one that starts by recommending several deep breaths.

I don't have a cell, nor do I use speed-dial, but I have heard from many people that they no longer know anyone's phone number.

If that's the case with him, and what he wanted the sister to convey to you (which didn't seem to come through explicitly), then you are putting yourself through all this sh*t for nothing.

Calm down and wait for him to return. If he simply doesn't know how to reach you, that's why he hasn't called (he may not have the time or means to investigate).

If he doesn't want to see you anymore, then he won't call after his return. THEN you can go through whatever process of being hurt you go through before moving on.

Answer 3

Honestly, I think you know what you want / need to do. You did say again...how many times has he done this to you. However, maybe he had an out of town emergency. Its kinda hard to judge the situation when you haven't been able to talk to him. It just seems weird that it was important enough for his sister to call you however he himself hasn't called yet. Also, is it coincidental that this fell on labor day weekend?? I'm sorry hun, but this is really just my thoughts. Like I said before it seems like you already know what you want / need to do. Good Luck & Take Care!

Answer 4

Some good advise for you. If your so-called boyfriend had the time to tell his sister to call you, then he had the time to call you himself. He's playing a game with you and the only way to get over someone who isn't interested in your happiness and well-being, is to be interested in yourself and move on with your life.

Answer 5

If he really cared about you he defuinetly would of called by now!!! Men can be extremely insensitive!!!
In most cases the treat us woman as objects not as people if i was in your shoes id prolly cry and cry some more but girl come to your senses find a hunk and keep him.......

Answer 6

Ask the sister if there is a way for you to contact him. If there is no way to contact him then you are at his mercy. I would go and start having fun and stop focusing on him. If he does call you I would not answer the phone. Give him the same treatment he is giving you.

Answer 7

If he can call his sister he can call you. He sounds real immature. 7 days is along time to not say a word to the one you love. I say move on.

Answer 8

he could be with some1 and his sis or whatever is covering up 4 him and when ever u see him again u might want to get mad then be als ad and glad to see him and what not.

Answer 9

He might not be pushing you away, but if that's the case, he's just a jerk. I wouldn't stay with him.

Answer 10

GROW UP. He is gittin some MUD for his TURTLE!