i always seem to know the answer to questions like..does he love me..but it drives me crazy that i cant answer my own qustions like that. i fell in love before..and that ended horrible..now i have a new bf..but i cant tell any diffrnece if this is going to work out better i know i shouldnt compare the too guys..but. i guess i get caught up in thing.i want a perfect relationship..i want to be happy but do know if im supposed to feel that way. i cant exspect perfect or can i???
will i feel a "certain feeling" when we kiss...i dont know anymore how to find out if he truley loves me..i dont know what im looking for...perfect..non perfect...magic moments..that special feeling ppl talk about..what is it.i odnt know
2006-09-07 10:38:36 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GIRL! MY BEAU GIVES ME THAT SPECIAL FEELING WHEN EVER WE TOUCH!!!!!
ANYWAYS. I GOT AN EMAIL ONE DAY AND I WILL SHARE IT WITH YOU. TAKE HEED TO IT CAUSE THE WORDS WILL TOUCH YOU. WHEN U READ THEM, U WILL KNOW WHAT TO DO.
You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly. mekefe4life@yahoo.com
2006-09-07 10:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by menyauna s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all NO-ONE is perfect. There is no such thing as the perfect relationship. You are right you can't keep comparing the two guys. You got to learn not all guys are alike, and give them each their own fair chance. Comparing your current boyfriend with your ex or any other boy/man for that matter will only make him upset and cause more problems for you and him. Only time will tell if he really loves you or not. If things are good between you and him and you love him then stick around to find out if he really loves you. If he says he loves you then believe him unless he does something to prove otherwise. Good Luck!
2006-09-07 10:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by ~*!Lisa!*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its best you don't start comparing. They are all guys, but they are a different person from one another. If you want to start comparing, you're not being fair to whoever you're with right now. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Simply that there's no such thing as a perfect guy. No one will be perfect, not even for you.
If you keep expecting unrealistic things from them and expecting how and how things should be, I can safely assure you nothing will work out for you. You'll just be in and out of relationships forever.
If you can't see how much a guy loves you from the way he treats you, I don't know how else can he show it.
Its best for you not to plunge yourself into relationships yet. I can see you lackthe emotional maturity to deal with it. You are ready for romance, but you're not ready to love anyone. Because you don't know what you want, you'll end up hurting other people.
2006-09-07 11:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by Saffren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand where you are coming from and it seems like you know that only time will tell. It will gradually come to you if he is for you or not. This is not something that I or anyone else can answer especially if there are no major problems with him. If he is doing what he is suppose to do in the relationship that makes it hard to determine if he is right for you. Because just because he is a nice guy does not necessarily mean he loves you. But time will tell and as time progresses you will feel in your heart if this is the man for you.
2006-09-07 10:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is such a thing as a perfect relationship. The question is, is the relationship worth continuing? The answer to that question has little to do with a "certain feeling" when you kiss. Simply put, if you like each other and enjoy spending time together, the relationship is worth it.
2006-09-07 10:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be detailed, down to the size of his shoes. Make a list of the qualities you want, and don't stray from it-EVER! Compare that list to what you have-is he it?You may not want to walk away from what you have if he doesn't have everything on your list, but think about this...What if you settle, and a few months or even years down the line, you realize he'll never be the man you wanted- what then? True love is when you find the man you want and he feels the same about you. I've been with my guy for over 10 years and we've NEVER had an argument. I think he's a keeper! Know what you want, and get it! Good Luck!
2006-09-07 10:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by dct1218 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately theres no set benchmark for finding the "right" one. Its hard to make logical assesments when you're emotionally involved. Be happy with yourself is the first move. You have to know where you are in life and some sort of idea of the direction you're going before you can truly make a relationship really work. I wasted many years trying to make someone else responsible for my happiness. I am now the happiest ever by knowing I control that aspect of my life. bye
2006-09-07 10:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tidewater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows?!!!
heck just go with it and enjoy do not look for perfection because 1 you willnot find it because hun you are not perfect so how can you look for it in someone else.
as for the love thing you will know when you know... and just take things one day at a time. I know it sounds corny but it is true. enjoy the moments you have together and do your best with everything that comes up. that is all that anyone can ask for in any kind of a relationship. give it your best and give the rest to god if you want to get really corny.....
2006-09-07 10:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by cowgirlsliketoride2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sounds like you have that other guy that you fell in love with still in your head . We all want the perfect relationship, all you can do is take it one step at a time and see how this new BF goes. Hopefully with time you will come to relieze how you feel for him . And its natural to compare old partners to new ones , i hope wish you all the best
2006-09-07 10:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfection is the beauty of striving for perfection, not in attaining it. As for love and comparisons between the old and the new, I have no popular advice, but i suggest that you look to see what you can change about you and your perceptions. It is possible that your old love's emotional toxicity will also destroy the new one. I wish you luck.
2006-09-07 10:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are over thinking the whole thing you should just let it happen and after a while your true feelings and his will come out you can't push a relationship for feelings that you haven't discovered yet. Be patient have fun and if it is meant to be it will all work out fine.
2006-09-07 10:41:10 · answer #11 · answered by ~Ronyea Q♪ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋