what can happen when u jump from a long term 'loving' relationship (which was very good but came 2 its natural end) into a new one...i keep bumping into my ex and its bothering me...becausei found my new man so quick who wasgreat, i've just ended it (like 10mins ago) as i feel unsure. what happened 2 u when u 'rebounded?' thanks! (serious answers please - after all no point answering questions if all u can say is 'kill yourself' or sayin abuse which i've seen people get when asking these things) :-)
2006-09-07 10:38:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sharscues - thankyou that was so insightful....yeh, i feel kinda tricked..this girl started w hole relationshp with me (i feel) to just get me into bed with my vulnerable state. for the 1st time in my life i feel used. i thought it was the real deal as we was made official at this family do, but gosh, i guess i jumped in too fast and was led along
2006-09-07 10:56:53 · update #1
lol i ment guy not girl...i am a girl he is a guy...oops
2006-09-07 10:57:27 · update #2
Well, I probably should not be answering this question because my wife left me a few days ago while I was at work.
I think you need time to rediscover yourself just to really find out what it is that you really want in a man and in life. Going into another relationship so quickly does not allow time for you to even realize if a man is what you want right now. If you had given time you may just want to date and test the other men out there because I'm sure for every man out there, there is a better man somewhere else. I'm not saying that you don't think you have found the "perfect" man but if you give time between relationships you will have time to think. You may just be replacing one man for another without insight into whether he is right for the "New" woman that you have become or would have become if you had given your self time to rediscover yourself. Good luck!
2006-09-07 10:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by sharkscue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
toppa:
In any old relaionships, it is most likely you will run into your former lover/boyfriend/girlfriend, etc. Love is an ever encomposing thing. The world is very small-believe me. I had a stupendus relationship with a female once, and believe this or not, I ran into her while I was visiting Thailand. And both her and I lived in the United states, across town from each other. Coincidense? Most assuradly.
We always remained good friends through life, and then I recieved word about 2 1/2 years ago that she had moved to Canada and their she continued to be a teacher. We always kept pretty much up to date on each other-we were lucky, we parted friends and stayed that way, however sometimes others are not so lucky.... I ran across her many times in my life-but that was more than likely as both of us shared a lot of interests. Travel was one of them.
Another example is-I went hiking with my daughters and special Ed Son and we were hiking 420 miles away, and I came across a couple of hikers and one had sprained her ankle-Yeah, you guessed it-it was dear sweet Linda! lol lol It was her and he new fiancee. I used my bandage wrap in my light pack and wrapped her with it and then helped her back to the Conservation officers shack, and we talked for awhile-although her fiancee was not real happy, after he found out who I was-my kids was laughing and joking about how"Small the world is"! So a good piece of advice- KEEP IT FRIENDLY AND JUST REMAIN FRIENDS-believe me it is a small, small world. Those were true stories and as you can see, it is a small small world afterall... Keep a steady hand on the helm and let your ship glide like silk in the water....Good luck and hope this might give you a small insight here to your question....Have a great day...
2006-09-07 18:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by tombowling49 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋