Seems that whatever I do, the woman only goes for the guy who mistreats her in every way possible.
2006-09-07 10:26:53 · 18 answers · asked by David Cross fan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a woman, I think it's true that there is a certain attraction to "bad bwoys".
However, having dated more than my fair share of them, even having gone as far as stupidly marrying one, let me tell you I'd give anything for have a nice, warm, funny, sensitive, smart guy!
2006-09-07 10:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's not true for all of us. I want exactly what you just posted. Why any woman would want a man to mistreat her is downright crazy!!!! I like to spoil and treat my man like a king if he deserves it. All that I ask is that I have a kind respectable and trustworthy man to treat me like a lady and love me deeply. Don't worry you will come across a woman that wants to be treated good, but make sure that she's always appreciative for your love and kindness. She's out there!!!!
2006-09-07 17:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. Here is what girls really want in a guy:
- someone who will always be different and not be a complete pansy all the time
- someone who can beat a girl at her own game
- someone who can frustrate a girl over something really silly/stupid
- someone who can switch between "sensitive and caring" and "annoying and jerky" in less than a second.
2006-09-07 17:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're in danger of going into sweeping generalizations, however...
Women generally don't know what they want, but when it comes to men, I think...
Strong
Confident
Truthful
True to himself - won't change to satisfy the woman
Doesn't kowtow to the woman's desires
Listens
Won't be pussy-whipped
That's a short list but from the many many women I've talked to, those right there are some pretty important things they're looking for in a man.
Good luck!
FP
2006-09-07 17:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to Offend girls! But I think it is just what they think they want.
Ok if girls want nice, sensitive guy, why is it you see any times they with a prick....
I think what the girls really want are Outgoing, risk taker... nice, sensitive guys tended to be bit shy too....
I am not boosting myself... but I was with a girl for two years and I am nice and sensitive and honest.. The problem I had was I was too honest with her and we kind of broke up :(
2006-09-07 17:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by Sparky12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See....what happens is that you get the jerks in disguise as the nice, sensitive, smart guy. By the time you find out, you are already hooked.
2006-09-07 17:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls only go for the bad guys! women on the other hand have learned the hard way and like the nice guys!
2006-09-07 17:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Sluttty McSluttt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe their self esteem is in the gutter. They may feel that they are only good enough for a man that mistreats her. She could be so used to it, that she's not confident in herself to find a good guy for her
2006-09-07 17:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Yup! I'm a girl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a nice, sensitive, sweet guy but women also don't want a guy who will let you walk all over him. Maybe they just haven't found a happy medium
2006-09-07 17:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by FaNtaBuLouS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We really want nice, sensitive, smart guys. But we also want a man who knows his mind and isn't afraid to disagree with us (without being rude, of course). Bottom line - we want to be able to respect you and we want to be respected in turn.
2006-09-07 17:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by Susan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋