hey...this guy i really fancy is going away on hs gap year soon...i told him how much i like him because i knew i cudnt rest til he knew and i wanted him to know b4 he left....he says he fancies me loads and he is really sweet....but he wants to go further with me b4 he goes away...is he being pressurizing?i mean i like him loads but i want to get to know him more b4 we go further...we havent met up properly since we met...we havent even kissed yet...we've been talking online loads but we know each other from school and work....what do you think i shud do?
2006-09-07 10:26:21 · 11 answers · asked by belleoftheball 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is your heart telling you to do? You could get really hurt...it's like the one-liner...Will you sleep with me; I'm leaving the country tomorrow!
I may sound cruel but have you thought that he'll get some while he's away? He's a guy and no matter what he says, if he's drunk and the situation presents itself, he won't turn it down!
Then he wouldn't tell you about it!
2006-09-08 04:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by Huckleberry Finn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go away first do what he has to do then come back as you both may change within that year, and you might want different things or o in different directions, but keep in touch with each other, do what you hav to do first ur books come b4 ANY man
2006-09-07 17:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on.
People change on gap years. I've lost a lot of my friends because their interests have changed and I find I can't talk to them in the same way that I used to.
2006-09-07 17:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of us men are only after one thing. He will do all that he can to get you into bed and then spend the whole of his gap year trying to do exactly the same thing to all the sexy ladies that he meets along the way. its sad but true he like a very high percentage of men are guided by their dicks and a desire to use them... don't let him convince you to do anything that your not happy with......... god i feel like a traitor??
2006-09-07 18:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by joseph 23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and have a long talk with him, you sound like a lovely young lady, so a long talk would be just what he would want from you.
2006-09-07 17:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Similar thing happened to my best friend , and she hasn't seen him since...he has been back over a year!!!!
Also ...if you need to ask people what you should do you already know.........
2006-09-07 18:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by Autumns' eve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till he gets back if he really likes you he will still like you in a year
2006-09-07 17:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you have to lose he's going anyway? you like him you have him on a plate now it up to you to woe him and make sure he knows whats he's missing
2006-09-07 17:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by shattered_crystal_heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything that you are not ready for. Don't let him talk you in to doing it.
2006-09-07 17:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This ones a no brainer....WAIT...if he's honest and sincere he'll understand. If you're not sure?...the answer is "wait".
2006-09-07 17:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋