2006-09-07 10:08:58 · 31 answers · asked by cookiesssssssssss 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No?
2006-09-07 10:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by ĵōē¥ → đ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, I guess it would depend on the Ex's reputation. If they are a pretty upstanding person, and the break up was at least 6 mo - 1 year ago. AND you were not part of the reason for the break up... Then sure
Just take anything they say with a grain of salt.
Maybe recruit a friend to feel it out for you first?
2006-09-07 10:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal Violet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience of young love, make as little contact with your partners exs' as possible. Theres no need to ask them questions because youd rather have the intimacy, privacy, mystery and excitement of a new born relationship. The ex cant have been ery successful otherwise they wouldnt be an ex so doesnt make much sense to ask them questions. And you dont want to learn from them because your relationship, your bond will be different, just enjoy it, Besides, having an ex of your boyfriend or girlfriend involved would just drive you crazy with jealousy, i really dont recommend it :(
2006-09-07 10:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Whizz-Kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking for trouble.
The only way I would do that, and I'm not sure if I even would. But if my boyfriend and I were having a little trouble and I wasn't sure how to deal with it, and if they were still friends, or had a decent relationship.
There's no point in asking an ex that has a bad realtionship with your current, you're bound to get a biased answer.
2006-09-07 10:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, it's really a bad idea.
1) I mean, they obviously broke up for a reason and so it is more than likely that the information you'll get is biased against her.
2) Its a bit weird to approach your partners ex, as they may not be too happy to talk about it. Unless you're very good friends and he/she totally doesn't mind.
3) Make your own decision. It's stupid to listen to other people, they always have formed opinions which will screw about with your opinion more than it should.
G'luck.
(don't ask him/her)
2006-09-07 10:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by theoneandonlyhaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-BF became doing an similar after 3 a million/2 years collectively except he did not get with everyone else and nevertheless isn't. looks to me your ex needs her cake and devour it too. IF she keeps you dangling, and it would not workout with the recent BF she will come again to you. that's noted as a "safe practices internet". unload her. She ended the relationship and also you could not get over her and flow on if she insists on being contained in the picture. it is going to likely be demanding sure, yet in case you're taking her again, she will unload you again because she knows she will "he continuously takes me again". get up for your self and respect your self to assert "no extra!" it truly is over. substitute your cellular telephone decision. i'm sorry yet is is frustrating and distinctly a lot no longer plausible to be "in basic terms pals" with someone you've been intimate with for a lengthy time period. you're literally not a door mat so do no longer imagine of your self as one and do not enable her spoil out with treating you with disrespect. Does her new BF recognize she's texting you? I heavily doubt it. Is it straightforward to him? No! it would not count number how previous one is eighteen, 28, 38...the sport continues to be an similar and it hurts and is tricky. So take it from someone older, who has been there....get up, be agency! and stroll on! I did!
2016-11-06 20:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. that person is an ex for a reason. they would more than likely have a few bad things to say about that person. I would want to find out for myself who my new b/f is. not who he was to someone else
2006-09-07 10:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by wantme_comegetme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to sit down with my husbands ex and have a few drinks.
2006-09-07 10:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any and every chance I got
who would know any better what you would have to deal with in a relationship with someone.
I would ask everything. Why did they split being the main one. See how close it is to what she is telling you.
2006-09-07 10:11:37 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-07 10:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope..i wouldnt cuz it's already over between them..and you should find out what how ur bf is like by being wid him
2006-09-07 10:11:02 · answer #11 · answered by miss_xiong03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋