Well is the statement, somebody tells this: "you are cute but fat" and another one tells you: "you are fat but cute". Who has said something hurtful or bad than the other? Please explain
2006-09-07 09:52:04 · 22 answers · asked by Chaim 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
both distasteful
2006-09-07 09:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both statements are really rude. The one that said you're fat but cute probably meant it in a nicer way.
2006-09-07 16:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by lilquriuzwun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are trying to tell you that you are fat but dont want to hurt your feelings too much so they say that you are cute. Either way you put it, it's just rude to say that to someone.
2006-09-07 17:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by lpogue2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEY MEAN THE SAME THING....IT'S AN IGNORANT PERSONS WAY OF BEING NICE... PEOPLE SHOULD START SAYING YOUR CUTE TO LOOK SO ANOREXIC, OR YOUR CUTE IN A SICKLY WAY,...OR IF YOU WEREN'T SO HORRIBLY SKINNY YOU'D BE A PRETTY GIRL..EITHER WAY YOU SAY IT IT'S MEAN IT JUST THAT FAT PEOPLE ACCEPT IT AND DON'T STAND UP FOR THEMSELVES AND SAY HEY I'M A F*CKIN PERSON AND THAT WAS A SH*TTY THING TO SAY, IN STEAD THEY SAY NOTHING AT ALL SO SOCIETY THINKS IT'S OKAY THEY ACTUALLY THINK THERE GIVING YOU A COMPLEMENT! YOU KNOW THROWING YOU A BONE BECAUSE YOU ARE FAT AND YOU SHOULD BE UGLY, NO I'M NOT FAT BY FAR BUT I THINK THAT'S SOME B.S AND I NEVER TREAT PEOPLE THAT WAY ALL YOU BIG CHICKS NEED TO STAND UP FOR YOURSELVES.
2006-09-07 16:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a person is fat, they know it and no one has to tell them.
Positive vibes. Remember, "Don't say anything if you don't have anything nice or kind to say." When you are talking about someone else.
You can loose weight, makeup, buy nice clothes and many other things to make yourself pretty and healthy. If your weight is affecting your health then you are over weight. If it isn't then you may not be over weight. Just big. That's not bad.
If a person gossips about others that's ugly and you can't change ugly.
2006-09-07 17:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kinda hard to explain. 1. It hurts feelings. 2. It's like telling a buff dude that has a great body, "Your body is fine but your face needs some work".
2006-09-07 17:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by im2cute4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...the first one is like, telling you that you're cute, but you should probably stay away from the donuts for a while.
the second one pretty much means yeah, you're fat, we all know it, but you're fat in the cute kind of way...;)
2006-09-07 17:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by aerie anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're both awful. The first one tells something nice and ruins it by saying something rude, and the second one tries to correct the rudeness by saying something nice but the damage is done.
2006-09-07 16:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are equally hurtful. is it fat but or but fat both are rude
2006-09-07 17:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by oddsend03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes fat but nice
shes nice but fat
2006-09-07 17:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by i ♥ my cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man I don't want to jump a skeleton's bones, I want some flesh on a woman. But not too much! Diet and exercise.
2006-09-07 16:55:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋