Hi what are things i will need to take into consideration if i dont want to have abortion? Like what exactly am i looking at?
2006-09-07 09:45:57 · 16 answers · asked by Chuck Norris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-07 09:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romeo Oh Romeo, you got your self in some trouble now didn't you Romeo....... Wow so many things are going to come crashing down on you SOON. But to start, if you guys don't want to have an abortion a couple of options to consider are.
1. I know it would be hard but you could always put it up for addoption.
2.Her mother could raise it as if it were her child. (so instead of your girlfriend being "mom" she would be "sister") I know a couple people who have done that and it seems to work well.
3. You guys could keep it.
If you choose #3 then what you really need to do is getting a JOB and save EVERY penny you earn. Babies are verry, verry, verry, expensive!!!! I can't stress that enough! A pack of 24 diapers is about $14.00 and thoes are the cheap ones and they aint getting any cheaper. She too needs to get a job. She can work (depending on what she does) up until 2-3 weeks before she is due.
Also DO NOT DROP OUT OF SCHOOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is the most improtant thing in the world!!!! if you want to give this child a good life and a good education then you need to do it frist. I can't stress that one enough. DON"T leave her, she can't do it on her own she needs you. Even if you guys break up still be there to help her and help support your child.
There is so much more to tell you but those are all things you will just have to learn on the way. Good luck... You are going to need it.
2006-09-07 17:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is pregnant and you are only 15?? You can't even get a decent job at 15. How will you support her and the care of your baby? What has happened is life-changing; you and your girlfriend now have a new life coming into this world that will need to be fed, clothed, taken care of, raised. The first thing you need to do, both of you, is tell your parents or school counselors. In the next several years, almost every day will bring you a new expense and new experience. Nothing that you are ready for. You were too young to have sex, and you should not have had unprotected sex. Now this is something you need to deal with the rest of your life. Tell your family and hopefully they will help you. I wish you good luck.
2006-09-07 16:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you bring a baby into this world, you must take care of it. If not, you will forever make your baby feel incomplete. When your child grows up, he or she will wonder why you have abandoned him or her. If you thinking about putting the baby up for adoptions, I would think twice.
I don't know much about adoptions but I once talk to a girl who went through the process of adoption and she had told me that: If the foster parent is upset with the child, they can ALWAYS return the kid to the foster home. They treat the child like he or she is a pet or something, a phase that they want to try out. That is in NO way fair for the child. They will FOREVER feel unwanted. LIFE WILL SUCK for them.
2006-09-07 16:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by Inquisit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Diapers- $150 dollars per month
Wipes - $ 60 dollars per month
Baby Clothes - $100 dollars every two months
Baby Formula - $60 dollars per month
No sleep for 3 months - insanity
Countless Days of two low paying jobs - exhaustion
Hearing a giggle or those first words from your childs mouth - Priceless
considerations and responsibilities you take for having babies
2006-09-07 16:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by ArticExplosion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A job, where are you going to live, do you have both of your parents support (financially, emotionally), are you ready to handle a kid, other options if you don't want to do abortion but you're not ready to support a kid (adoption), are parents willing to help you both out to take care of the kid since you're both still in school, can you handle such a big responsibility, how does your girlfriend feel, what does she want to do.
2006-09-07 16:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Jerry Springer episode
2006-09-07 16:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by Annabelle418 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion shouldn't even be the issue anyway.
I mean if you are old enough to have sex then you should be old enough to work your A** off to take care of that child.
You shouldn't depend on anyone else to take of that child.
that child should be yours and your girlfriends responsibility.
2006-09-07 16:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of sacrifises .be prepared to give up your life for awhile. its not a bad thing just your young and you just lost your life friends and status in school or neighborhood.we all did it it just might be harder for you b/c of your age. it can be done and ill tell you there is no love in the world like when your baby is born and you hold them for the first time.but all you lose now you get back when your older.
2006-09-07 16:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sh*t Romeo, I don't think you getting an abortion will fix anything since it's your girlfriend that is pregnant. But if your dead set on getting one, it's ok with me.
2006-09-07 16:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lifetime of hell, because eventually you will both grow into different people and will end up breaking up..Once you have that baby things are never going to be the same...GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-07 16:50:06 · answer #11 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋