I broke up with my boyfriend recently and i am miserable. he is away for work three weeks out of every month and we fight whenever he's gone. i felt like he didn't care much about me and just wanted someone waiting at home for him after each trip, but when we broke up he said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and my daughter. there is no trust on either side for no good reason and when i go out with my friends he yells at me and calls me names like "whore, bar-trash, bad mom...etc i know its his insecurities but its unacceptable. he's absent and controlling but it has been a month since the break up and i can't get over him and don't think i want to anymore... i've never felt this strongly about any man and fear i never will... we were together a year...on the other hand i am doing ok on my own and don't want to get hurt again... what to do?
2006-09-07 09:43:50 · 3 answers · asked by farynblue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a doomed relationship.
I'd say that the "no good reason" for not trusting each other is purely based on the fact that you guys are apart for long periods of time, often. I guess it's just frustration.
If there are no other issues, I suggest that he look for local work, or you both move to where he works.
If you can't do either, then just call your relationship a victim of logistics, and call it over.
Not so sure that you don't have other issues though, because the things he's said to you would be pretty intentionally hurtful to me. I don't think the things he's said are excusable for any reason.
Good luck
2006-09-07 09:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want all this drama in your life? Is the good worth the bad? Make a decision and then stick with it.
2006-09-07 16:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not worth it trust me...you shouldn't be together if that's what u guys have to talk about when he's away
2006-09-07 16:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋