i'm 38 years old i never thought of a life with out my wife(the love of my life)and our two kids.i'm thinking about ending it all or leaving this state because i can bear to see her.and if she meets someone else i won't be able to handle it and would hurt him real bad!serouis help only please.
2006-09-07 09:40:04 · 5 answers · asked by Rob C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
why i know she still loves me she's just on a high because she had gastric bypass surgery and men started to pay attention to her i want her to fall flat on her face.and realize what we had.it will not effect her will just speed up the process and save my life and my kids future.
2006-09-07 10:04:47 · update #1
I agree completely with Creatrix on this one. A spell is not the answer in this situation. Neither is leaving 2 children fatherless.
I understand that you are in pain. It feels like you will never heal and there will always be a huge void. I can assure you it is not a permanent state, it just feels that way right now.
Please get yourself some counseling or find a support group. Those kids need their father and at 38 you have so much more in front of you.
I know you as Rob, so if you don't mind I will ask that you find peace of mind when doing my devotions tonight. (It can't hurt) I am wishing you and your children the best.
Blessings )O(
2006-09-07 10:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Rob, bro. I know, I empathize with you my man. But you cannot fix something that is broken, and you cannot bring back that which doesnt want to return.....
You have to let go and move on. Its hard, I know - Ive been there. I came home and found the woman I had been living with for 5 years and was engaged to sleeping with my best friend. I couldnt imagine life without her either. After forgiving her and asking her to stay, she left anyways. I lost everything - my home, my friends, my very life-force.
That was 7 years ago. Still hurts when I think about it....but I am a better person for it today, I survived the unsurvivable, and I am here to tell you that the same will occur for you as well, if you wish to heal from the situation. Ive met another woman, and am engaged again! Time heals all wounds, and the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
Hope that helps. Suicide is a permanent answer to a temporary situation..... dont bother with it. Hit me up on email if you need someone to talk to bro....
JA
2006-09-07 09:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by YDoncha_Blowme 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your 38 yrs old and your still young, what you have to do now is be a real man, show your wife that you can go on without her, and most of all set a good example for your kids, because none of this is their fault. So if she finds another guy, you need to show your kids that you are man enough to treat this guy right ( he has no fault of whats going on) and respect him and their mom. And if you are stupid enough to end it all, think of what that will do to your kids.
2006-09-07 09:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by jen s 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Spells are the wrong approach here, and I'm a witch so I'm not going to give you the "it's of the devil" routine. But you can't cast spells that would interfere with her free will.
You CAN however, cast on yourself to learn to cope with what happens, to learn to let go, or to help yourself heal.
"Ending it all" would do serious damage to your children. Children of a parent who commits suicide are more likely to commit suicide, use drugs and engage in other self-destructive behaviour. If you love your children, do not do that to them!
Good luck and Bright Blessings! )O(
2006-09-07 09:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by ZombieTrix 2012 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 23:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋