I mean a guy who is overweight has a better shot to get a girl is he's confident?
2006-09-07 09:39:05 · 11 answers · asked by james w 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Interesting that when an attractive young woman is seen out with an older or less "attractive" man, people will assume the man must be "rich" .....
THE most attractive thing about a man, is his quiet confidence. Not loud or obnoxious, just quietly confident in himself - who he is, - what he does, - his goals and achievements, - values & morals. That sort of man feels "secure" to be around.
Remember, women still react to our evolutionary engineering of "survival of the fittest" when seeking a good mate, and someone who feels confident about being a good "hunter" who can bring home the bacon and protect the family from the elements, is sure to be attractive to women.
You will be very surprised by how few women are in the least affected by any weight issues, if it just "feels secure" to be around you.
2006-09-07 09:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by helene m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is going to like a person who does not even like themselves? Confidence is very important and very attractive in a person.
Dont get me wrong, having a HUGE EGO is just as bad as having no confidence( in fact, usually people with huge ego's are the ones pretending to have confidence when they really have none)
Anyway, if a person presents them nicely, treats people with respect and has a good heart, they have a big shot of finding somebody, no matter what they look like on the outside.
2006-09-07 09:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, confidence is very important. It can be very attractive and cause a girl to overlook other flaws (such as being overweight). However, the caveat is that there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Arrogance can be a turn off. And myself, I also happen to like nice guys. So it's OK if he's not so confident if he's nice.
2006-09-07 09:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on the guy. I like shy guys but a shy guy wouldn't ask me out. Confidence is good too but overly confident and he comes across as arrogant which I shy away from.
yes your probably right a confident guy would have more chance of getting the girl than the shy guy.
2006-09-07 09:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by firenze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is the difference maker in everything in life. Its what separates winners from losers. If your confident you can ask the hottest girl in the dance to dance or just stay in the corner with the rest of the geeks.
2006-09-07 09:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by urhomiesid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter about the size you are. U have to have cofidence in yourself for u r attitudes. Act and work like a men you will have confidence. Look at Jay Z with beyonce
2006-09-07 09:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by gurleen21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence in who you are, are VERY important. Women dont want insecure guys, they want a guy who knows who he is and says "take it our leave it"
2006-09-07 09:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by Irish ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely my a million - 10 scale will be diverse to yours yet i'd say 7. you in basic terms quite want to make positive you could tell him your thoughts thats each and each and every of the arrogance you want. for instance if someone asks you out on a date dont say sure because your scared to decline. or in case your boyfriend asks you what action picture you wanna see dont sky away tell them the reality! be positive on your answer no count number what they imagine aslong as its real
2016-11-06 20:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence is very important that's what I believe girls are intrested in
2006-09-07 09:45:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is everything; girls, guys, pretty, ugly, overweight, stupid, whatever.
2006-09-07 09:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by theobromo77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋