That's a hard question i know but i just want to know how to make sure that's real love?? i mean how do you know it's not just a crush??
2006-09-07 08:56:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MANY TIMES!!!
Seriously, I have been married twice and if you can find that ONE TRUE LOVE that's great; however, I believe that people either grow together or they grow apart. Also, I believe that people were put into our lives ~~ sometimes JUST FOR THAT MOMENT! Is that love??/ Sure, it is~!!
2006-09-07 08:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, it is a hard question. After having several girl friends, then getting married and then divorced, I came to find someone that made me feel entirely different. After dating this one special person for about a year the same feelings were there. Nothing changed... I was still ecstatic about seeing her every time, and we both enjoyed each others company completely all the time. She, like I never insisted on anything, never expected anything, and never dis-respected each other. Every time I simply touched her sent tingles all through my body. I could talk to her about anything without worrying about being judged. We had no secrets from each other, because non were needed.
How do you know if it's real love and not a crush? Because with love it's not what you expect from each other, it's what is freely given. It's not what is asked, but is said. It's not what is done, but what is showed. If all is well at the end, you know it was love and not a crush. It becomes part of you, and you gladly spend the rest of your life seeking it again.
Yes, I only experienced it once, but that once was more than many people have had... Hope that you too will someday be able to experience it. Then you will know the difference between a crush and LOVE.
2006-09-07 09:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by J j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and still going strong. Only time will tell if it's a real love. Crush will only last for a while. Try avoid seeing or talking with that person for about a month and see if u still have the same feeling. If you do, then it's love. It's the willingness to give, not take, that keep love strong.
2006-09-07 09:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by aeth3rs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if it is just a crush. It could grow into love. If you are attracted to someone and they to you, what's the problem with
just getting together to have a good time. Real love has to start
somewhere. People act as if it has to be "Real Love" from the
instant they meet. Dating is fun and real love is serious! Let life
happen, don't push it.
2006-09-07 09:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A crush is when you obsess over them...true love is when you feel it in the pit of your stomach and you know you can survive if they aren't with you every second of the day because you WILL see them soon. A crush feels like just that...it crushes your heart when you aren't together, but true love gives you a sense of self worth and centers your whole body...it's a great feeling~
2006-09-07 09:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a big word eventhough it has only 4 letters........love means commitment, sacrifice but if somebody is willing to die for you then that's real love....LOVE, well I had that once, but it was taken away from me so I think it will be very hard to come back to me.
2006-09-07 09:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by samuela t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in love with the most wonderful man now, and I knew with in 3 months that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. If you have to ask yourself whether you love someone or not, your probably not in love.
2006-09-07 08:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to fall in love with a many people for different reasons..So just love and be loved...
2006-09-07 08:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great question i say. and i dont think there is a right or wrong answer.
for me i knew the moment my fiance first said something hurtful to me (i know that sounds odd) but i had this chill go down my spine and it was the worst feeling ever....no one had EVER done that to me (not even my abusive father).
then when reflecting after our tift...i realized how much he means to me...and how much i care for him...and how i truly love him.
2006-09-07 09:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in love now- You will know when you are in love- if you question it- it is probably not love.
2006-09-07 08:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋