After we spend a good time together, then he ignores me. When I'm upset he and ignore him, he then tries to be nice. This is driving me mad.
So I get all confused, does he like me or does he just want to fool around or he's totally messed up?
2006-09-07 08:55:44 · 20 answers · asked by bestwomanberry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he likes you a lot and doesn't know what to do
2006-09-07 08:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by ****stars***** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Games. Thats what he is playing. If you want an immature relationship then stay in this one. When you have a good time, he should be nice to you, when you are mad or upset or anything he should be nice to you. And help you through those times.
I dont know, maybe he is just scared of a relationship, I mean if you have a good time and he is mean he is scared of getting close or rejected so he acts like he doesnt care. And when your mad he wants to be nice, so you dont walk away.
Whatever the case may be. Tell him he need to grow up a little and tell you what the deal is. Otherwise I would just leave.
2006-09-07 16:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly what you feel is "ignoring you" is his way of showing that he's very comfortable with you, and can relax with you, without having to continually interrelate. If he's nice when you are upset, that would seem to show he cares for you, and doesn't want you to be upset. Getting upset is not a useful reaction. If something he does bothers you, you should tell him, and discuss the situation. The "silent treatment" is not very effective as a communications tool.
2006-09-07 16:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by hasherbob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not ALL men are like that. Some men know how to treat women and show them respect. How old is he? If he is a teenager he may like you and not know how to tell you and not know what to say around you. If he is an adult and ignores you then he haves some problems. If he keeps it up show him the door.
2006-09-07 16:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by deadly_rose_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After "a good time together"; shut-up, leave him a lone so he can enjoy it. When your upset GET OVER IT. If he just wants to fool around, he is a normal man. If he likes you he will eat your cooking.
2006-09-07 16:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by Free Ken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he try to see if you care about him or how bad u act if he ignore u.man are haveing a strange way to show that they like some girl,sometimes they don't even ignore u they just forget about you and if u ask why, they say u forget about them so they have an excuses,for everything
2006-09-07 16:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is ignoring you then you need to find someone that will pay attention to you and not play childish games. Maybe you should make some new friends.
2006-09-07 15:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by Starlesha23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how it goes baby till someone ties the other down in the bonds of martrimony. That's what they were invented for.
2006-09-07 15:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you and is not showing you any respect. You need to find someone that cares, because he could care less.
2006-09-07 16:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's Just Having Fun ! He's Not A serious Guy ... Be carefull !
2006-09-07 15:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by xxxXAshXxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to mess around
find some one else
2006-09-07 15:58:31 · answer #11 · answered by ardgo2112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋