to cut a long story short i met this guy on the internet 7 months ago we fel inlove but then i found out he had a girlfriend i tried to make him jealus by getting a boyfriend this did not work however because the other guy dumped his girlfriend before he found out i had a boyfriend we were both stuck in a bad situation for an month , i dumped my boyfriend and we aranged to meet a few times before but they didnt go ahead , we were going to arange again unitl today when i went on my e-mail i had recieved some mail from his ex-girlfriend telling me about how she was going to get him back because he always goes back to her , and she also told me tht he and her had made love a number of times evan tho the guy swore to me he was a virgin , he has told me previusally tht his ex was a liar and he didnt like her , i really want us to work we dont live to far away we live onli 2 buses away may b onli one
ps i think i wrote this in the wrong section lol
2006-09-07 08:53:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*we are both the same age and both go to college
*we both love each other very much
* we have talked on the phone
2006-09-07 08:54:53 · update #1
You need to figure out who's lying...him or her. If he's being truthful, then perhaps it will work out, but be careful. She could be a psycho and come after you. You know what they say about a scorned woman....Just find out what the real deal is and take it slowly until you know exactly what's going on. Tell him to get her out of his life and prove his love for you. If he won't, then you know he's jerking you around. Good luck.
2006-09-07 08:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like it is complicated, any thing as confusing as this you need to think, is it worth it? What is wrong with being just friends, until you get to really know a person, Then you wont get so hurt later. You are in collage, you are going to meet a lot of people, enjoy life!!
2006-09-07 16:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time with him he will tell his ex is a liar but when his with her he doesnt metion you I had something like this happen to a friend and trust me its not worth not only that you dont this guy like that why get in the drama
2006-09-07 15:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should meet him tell him to bring a friend and you can too. so it is more safe. then decide for yourself how you act together. love can make anything work. BUT YOU GUYS GOTTA GET FACE TO FACE!!
i met a guy online we talked on the phone all the time but then i met him and i just couldnt stand him in peson and told him to **** off ha ha
hope it goes better for you!!!
2006-09-07 15:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, his ex girl friend seems really mean and doesnt have respect for u or him. u should talk to this guy ur seeing and ask him about it, and if he doesnt admit it, then show him the email, and while u show him the email, show him that ur heart broken and cry a lil to show tears, that will break his heart and get mad at his ex and he will feel bad for u and go for u.
2006-09-07 15:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should go out with him..don't listen to his ex gf...maybe his ex gf doesn't want u to be with him..that's why she said like that...u should trust him....I had the same experience like u...I met my boyfriend thru internet too....
so Good luck!!!
2006-09-07 15:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by naomi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
this won't work out.
First clue - if you even have to ask it's doomed.
Second clue - you guys were playing games from the START, and you think making someone jealous works
Third Clue - HE LIED TO YOU
2006-09-07 15:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋