For the guys...?

Question

When you first start dating a girl why do you always do romantic things, then after the 6th month mark you dont do it anymore? Please answer seriously and dont give me these, "he just wanted to bang you" answers.

Answer 1

Things just settle, the two of you become comfortable with each other. You really have 2 choice talk to him about it or kick things up a notch on your own. Get creative with things for the two of you to do. Start taking an interest in yourself and doing things for you. He's either going to support you or disapprove. If he supports you that's a good thing. If he disapproves then maybe you need to consider if this is the person you want to be with.

Answer 2

Sounds like you need to re-fuel the fire. Relationships take work. And it's not the "guys fault" the relationship isn't getting the affection or attention it's needing. Both of you need to do romantic things for each other. The saying "it takes two to tango" is true. If he sees you're being romantic, more than likely it'll make him want to do something romantic for you. The object is to keep the fire going, otherwise it may go out. Most guys think of it as a game...girl dont see it that way at all, and that's why there is so many break ups now'a'days. don't hate the player...********. Love isn't a game, it's a strong emotion that can make or break someone. You shouldn't abuse it. Use it. So get some ideas on how to show him you want him and love him. Good luck! ~JUStin

Answer 3

They just wanna bang you. Just kidding. Guys will put their best foot forward cause they wanna make a first impression. But after a while they will begin to act like themselves, the person you see after 6 months is the real person. It does not mean they dont like you or appreciate you, it means that they are happy and comfortable with you and they can be genuine. Its a good thing, you are a part of him and he feels he does not have to prove anything. Of course their is the bad side and that means he is getting tired of you. Its up to you to find out.

Answer 4

I don't think it is the 6 month mark. Sometimes its longer and sometimes its shorter. The fact is men are not naturally romantic. We have to work at it. Once a relationship developes we shouldn't have to "sell" ourselves anymore. Thats not saying we don't have to do anything romantic anymore, just that it will slow down. Also after a while we run out of romantic ideas. It gets harder and harder to think up romantic stuff. If we did romantic stuff all the time anyway, we wouldn't have anything to suprise you with.

Answer 5

Those that are skilled with winning the female heart are very seldom satisfied with one. You are referring to the ones that are. The difference between the new girl and the 6 month girlfriend is almost as varied as the difference between the girl friend and the wife.

Besides the great expense of the wooing the six month girl friend She has fallen into another more familiars role.

If I visited your family for dinner and Spilled a drink you would most likely say, don't worry about it , as the new girlfriend would be told, even if it went on him.

What would he say now. If his first words are angry, congratulations., You are the girl friend that he doesn't have to impress.

Such is life.

Answer 6

for most men i would think it would be that after a certain point in the relationship they get to comfortable, and take for granted the women. the feelings are there, but in a way they feel their past the point of romance. that and the way most people look at relationships as being disposable, the divorce rate is somewhere around 72% which equals 3/4 marriages failing so you tell me.

Answer 7

I know you wanted males to answer you, but im curious on this question as well, and i think its because they become comfortable around you, and feel they have tagged n bagged you so why keep trying so hard. Everyone puts there best foot forward when meeting new people. I think they really try to impress you and then figure they've been with you long enough that you accept them for them. just my 2 cents :)

Answer 8

ok im not a guy but...
its cos the first 5-6 months are great
and then the spark kinda dies and it becomes routine...and then the girl gets pissed and starts calling a lot...and then the guy gets pissed cos shes calling too much and wont give her, her space etc etc etc....
so its better to spend more time apart with friends so that when you two are together, its really good...
its the period where everything just settles and blends in with your previous life before ur lover came along

Answer 9

It takes guys different amounts of time to get comfortable with a girl. He stops impressing when the girl stops trying to impress. Relationships work both ways. Dont leave it up to him.

Answer 10

once we get you, i dont mean bang i just mean get you, the challenge is no longer there. We get complacent, comfortable. in the beginning, we try harder to impress you. its almost like a test to see if were good enough, then we think we could do better and want someone 'out of our league' so to speak. its a game. dont hate the player...