i am a white girl in love with an indian guy and he cant even have a serious relationship with me because his mother will only allow him to get married to an indian girl. is there any way to change their minds?
2006-09-07 08:03:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the guy really loves you, he will either convince his family to accept you as his wife or he will marry you without letting them interfere. I think the problem is more with the guy than his culture.
He has to have enough courage to express his love to his parents & then skills to convince them. If he is nto able to convinve them he should leave them if he really loves you.
There are lot many Indian men I know who have married girls of other races & lived happily thereafter.
2006-09-07 17:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy is probably immature or he doesn't have the guts to live on his own - so either forget him or give him some time. If still he is same even after some time then theres only one thing you can do to get him hooked is present a baby of his to his mom!!
Yes some of Indian guys give much much more importance to their moms than their girls / wife.
2006-09-07 15:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by jk s 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think you may be better off marrying someone who has a mind of his own? You sound a nice person and I hope things work out for you.
By the way I am open to offers (wink!)
Good luck!
2006-09-07 15:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said tat white girl cannot marry an indian guy.....u can of course
2006-09-07 15:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by Frendlygal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well its not necessary u can marry.if u cant then change ur cast,race than his mother wont hav any problem.even i m an indian girl & i m 16 i told my parents tht i will marry only whom i lik & they didnt refuse it.changing cast,race can result u better but it difficult.bt every thing is fair in love & war isnt it.try it ,this can work & solve ur problem.
2006-09-07 15:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably not. That is a cultural thing, as well as they would want their son to marry within his caste.
2006-09-07 15:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be a good friend of his mother.
2006-09-08 01:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by dinesh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he certainly can if he has the balls
if not he doesnot deserve u
mwah
tk cr
2006-09-07 16:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can if u wanna marry me...
2006-09-08 04:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sunny4U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if ur guy isnt willing then i am ready ;)
2006-09-07 15:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by somen_p 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋