I met this guy through work, & got his personal phone #. I started texting him & the next day he asked me out on a date. We ended up goin out to dinner & then drove around for a while, talking & getting to know each other. Everything was going great, & then he drops the bomb on me that he has a girlfriend, but of course tells me "it's not going well". So I play it safe for the next week, just being friends with him. Well after the first week, things started to go in the direction of dating. We were dating behind his girlfriend's back (who lives in a different state because of school) for about a month. Then I finally asked him if anything was going to happen between us or if I was just around because he missed his girlfriend. He told me he likes me a lot and loves spending time with me, but he can't leave his girlfriend, whom he loves. He still acts like we are dating, should i stick around & date him to see if he'll leave her for me or just give up?
2006-09-07 08:03:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u shud drop this guy and move along. not only is he playing around with u, he doesn't respect u either. he's just using you as a back-up. also, the fact that he's goin around wid u behind his girlfriend's back shows dat he's not sincere in his relationships. wud u still hav him if u cud? you deserve someone better who has more strength of character & respects you.
hav sum self-respect friend & move on. also, men who ask women out after knowing them only slightly r not at all to be trusted. imagine how many other women they've dated on an impulse.
2006-09-07 08:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by pioneer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl that is a no, no, your just getting your self into a problem that's just going to come right back to you, and if he really likes you he would leave her for you. So that just shows what he's really with you for. you might think that it's no big deal and it's OK, but it's not what happens when his Real girlfriend finds out , your going to look bad. So you need to ask him who he really wants to be with and why is he with you if he loves someone else.
2006-09-07 15:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by FlAwL3ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you and taking advantage of you. I have heard that same line...i really like you and spending time with you, but in his heart he knows that he loves his gf. So i would get rid of him and stop spending so much time with him. The more time you do spend, the more it will hurt when you find out that things aren't going where you hope they will
2006-09-07 15:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by smuggie71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you knew he had a girlfriend so you should have ended right there how would you feel if someone did that to you. THEY NEVER LEAVE THEIR REAL GIRL.You are just a booty call until she gets back so if you like being thrown around like a piece of trash then feel free to keep playing his game.
2006-09-07 15:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it hard to breathe with that sphincter around your neck? He's cheating on the woman he LOVES with you...are you going to have any words of wisdom for the girl he cheats with when he claims to be in LOVE with YOU? Why would you want to be with someone who is only using you? Where is your self-respect?
2006-09-07 15:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one plain and simple answer to this. Think of yourself as his girlfriend at school. Would you like it? If they are going to stay together, even though she's at school, something has to be there. If not then he should end it.
2006-09-07 15:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not stick around.
if he truly likes you he would not tell you to your face that he loves some other person.
try to break it off.
its better to be in a relationship you know is heading somewhere than one where you're sure ( and even when the person tells you) is going no where.
2006-09-07 15:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by Deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are being played. If he told you he loves his girlfriend and hes not leaving her there's your answer.
2006-09-07 15:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by teresa_legge@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him. He's not worth it. You deserve better. Unless you want to become the other woman, GET OUT NOW!!!
2006-09-07 15:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up unless you are such trash you like being the other woman. Think about that.
2006-09-07 15:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by BadAdvice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋