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Question

I have been in a lesbian relationship for three years. For the past six months we havent been doing well and we basically called it quits. However, we still live together and I dont want to be disrespectful, but my body is in need of a man. What should I do?

Answer 1

To the responses I have seen so far everyone makes it seem like this is an easy thing to do..Unfortunatley you and I know that it is not as easy as it sounds.. Seeing the fact that you were in a SERIOUS relationship with this person will make things hard especially if she finds out you are seeing someone else..And yes this is regardless if you two are not togther. You know that no one wants to see thier ex with someone else especially if the relationship was as serious as yours was..

To be honest there really is no easy way around this.. You know already that you cannot tell her if you do have another relationship, so if you continue to live togther you will continuously have to lie or get into an argument about the truth. If you both can't come to grips of the both of you no longer being together, one of you is going to have to move out....It is harder to move on if you never actually got away from the other...

As far as getting some from a guy...that is the easiest part of your problem...

Answer 2

Before you do anything, you should clear the air with her. Make sure you both come to the same conclusion that it is over and you can both move on with your lives. It is better to move on with a clear conscience. If not, as long as you have not done that, you are still in that relationship and is is considered cheating. Always make sure you cut all strings when things are not working out. You said you don't want to disrespect her, then make sure you don't take anyone in your home even after you make it known to each other that it is definitely over. Even when people part, there are still some little feelings left lingering because you once cared a lot for each other and sometimes even the little left over feelings can stir up jealousy, which we all know can be bad at times. Good luck.

Answer 3

Go out and try to get a man. If you don't want to be in that kind of relationship, just try to find a male friend to talk to and see how that goes. If you both like each other then you do what you want to do. You will have to tell him that you were in that kind of relationship, especially if he wants to come over your house, so he will expect that you have someone living with you. He woul;d care for you even if you tell him that you were a lesbian. If he doesn't leave him alone. I know that I wouldn't care, as long as you have a good personallity and a great heart, I'll love you the same.

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Answer 4

U gotta live for u. If the 2 of u called it quits she just has to understand that u r going to have other relationships. By u not living ur life the way that u want ur would just be letting her know that she still has a hold on u. If the relationship is truly over, she has to know that u will be moving on and she should respect that.

Answer 5

Go to his house.

It's good that you don't want to be disrespectful, but that should not stop you from livign your life. You girls are not together anymore... and there is no need for you to bring a guy to the same place you and her live.

Or be direct and tell her that you will date somebody else. You gotta roll with the punches, and the sooner both of you live in different roofs, the better.

Good luck.

Answer 6

First of all if you still consider one another friends, i would tell her about this and tell you that you don't want to hurt her feelings but these are your wishes. Is she dating others since the break up? If she freaks you will have another mess to deal with but if she is really done as you put it and is a fairly intelligent person she should appreicate your honesty and should say if it will bother her for you bring a guy home or not. then you have to figure out how far you want to push the or not if it raises it's ugly head? how are the bills paid? Do you share them?
Does the house belong to one or the other of you? If this leads to your not sharing living quarters you must remember your giving up freedoms and if it's worth it to remain her roomie. Good luck!

Answer 7

Well, given the length of the relationship, I do think it would be disrespectful to start a new relationship if you're still living together. It's hard work and inconvenient, but it's time for you to move out. Sorry!

Answer 8

Wow. That's a unique situation, but it seems to me that it's more of a blessing in disguise. If you two aren't "together" anymore, then I suggest you go find a guy to be with and see how you feel about it.

If you like the feeling, then that means you are bisexual with a preference towards women. If you don't like the feeling, that means you are a lesbian. You should use this situation to find out more about yourself and what you really want/need in life.

I wish I could help you find a guy but most of us are jerks, aside from me and a couple of others =)

Answer 9

I think you've got to separate, someone needs to leave. Man or not, dating other people is inevitable! Now, three years, did that make you forget how easy it is to find a man to **** you? Girl, go out and find a man! I bet you could have your pick, just stand on top of the bar and announce, 'my ex-girlfriend is home, and I need a man to do me at his own place!' It will be okay.

Answer 10

after being together for so long you should have the kind of communication where you can tell her that you need a little companionship from a man. You aren't together anymore so she can't be mad... every person has needs, you can't be worried about hurting her if you aren't together. eventually you were going to move on it's just sooner rather then later....