Okay, I am just starting to date this woman, and its only been two dates and about three weeks. We seem to talk on the pholne on a regular basis...but how much is too often. For example, it feels sometimes I may be calling too much and she returns the call vice versa, but does it come across as needy and possibly scare her away...but then if I wait a couple of days...does it show I may not care when I really do?
2006-09-07 07:44:20 · 6 answers · asked by chewey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're calling each other this much it shows that you enjoy each's other's company and that's great! Hey, there are so many of us looking to find compatibility or that "spark", and you have it! Enjoy it...call her whenever you feel like! =)
And, go out with her again! Only 2 dates in 3 weeks...come on!
2006-09-07 07:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by it's me! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, actually that's just showing that the both of you have interest in eachother, but you're also at the point where you may be talking too much because neither party wants to get tired of that person because of that matter. Just take things slow. And if you feel like calling then call, its just showing the other person that you are thinkin about them..
2006-09-07 07:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only 2 dates in 3 weeks???? Does she leave the country for business or something??
Thats besides the point. Well this is where text messaging can come handy. If you really like her, than call maybe 3 times a week. and text her the days you dont call. If she wants to chat with you, let her pick up the phone.
2006-09-07 07:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by beautifuldisasterforurenjoyment 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol - you can't go by me!! When I met my ex, the first night we talked on the phone for 7 hours!!!! I'm not kidding!! Don't worry so much about coming across as needy, etc - just roll with it. I am quite sure she's flattered that you want to talk to her as often as you do - & she should feel comfortable enough with you to just pick up the phone & call you when she thinks of you, too!!!
Ask HER!! tell her exactly what you told us (do it in person, tho, not on the phone!!!) & see what she says & how she feels. Communication is vital - keep it up!!!! Good luck & talk away!!
Better than those "silent types" - fer sher!!!
2006-09-07 07:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to take it real slow ,there is no hurry.you want this to work out good for you both.so if she calls just do as it goes.If you want to call her than do it.she just might feal a little scared to so talk it is the best way to make things feal better.hope that this has helped.
2006-09-07 07:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait for her to call you sometimes, that way it doesnt seem to awkward
2006-09-07 07:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by Love em or hate em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋