Him and yourself not wanting to cheat on his wife, but he loves you so much, and both of you are in love what should be your reaction as a woman.
2006-09-07 07:34:23 · 21 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it is a waste of your heart and time if he were worth loving he would not be still married
ask any divorced person sometimes being "in love" is not enough
2006-09-07 07:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by cherie118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advise 101. Okay, The answer your looking for is a simple one. Come with me on a ride down "fcuk up lane". First off, you guys may be in love, and I don't care how many movies you watched to where this situation happens and everything is hunkydory, but what you don't see happen in the movies is the next day when sh1t gets hostile and guns are pulled and the tears begin, and heartache, and the love turns to sh1t cause of the mistake of loving a married person. Don't do it. If he loves you so much, he should get a divorce before doing anything with you, otherwise I think he's just looking for a new lay cause he's bored with his wifes. Don't fall for this. This is going to hurt you in more ways than one. Love is just a word. If you're too in love with him to be blinded enough that he really doesn't love you but just saying that, then you need to get back on track. Think this though for the sake of everyone. Be the adult in the group, stand up and straight tell him, if you love me so much why are you with her? Don't talk to him or be around him until he shows you..(by getting a divorce)...that he wants to be with you. But then again, think of this...If he does this with you and all...do you ever think he might not do it again? Leave you for another because he is getting bored with you? Just a though to ponder. Hope you choose the best decision for both...all three of you. ~JUStin
2006-09-07 08:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by JUStin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Am Messing Around With A 54 Year Old Married Man And I Am 20 Years Old!!!!!!!!
2006-09-08 04:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you so much why is he still with his wife? Also you really shouldnt date him but you cant help what your heart feels. If yall two are in love then maybe yall should give it a try. Either way, if he cheats or doesnt he is hurting his wife. If he goes on being with her but he is in love with you than he is just gonna hurt her more.
2006-09-07 07:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in love with a married man for about 2 yrs and for those 2 yrs he kept telling me he was leaving her and all this BS, it took me a long time to get over him. Get away while you can. Sex is one thing, but feelings are something totally different. And not everyone can keep the two separate.
2006-09-07 07:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is in love with someone else then clearly he doesn't love or want to be with his wife! He if wants to be with you then he should get a divorce, until then you should leave him alone and stop assisting to the wants has to be with you, he needs to honor his marriage...
2006-09-07 07:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, do not walk, to the nearest exit.
We're all weak. Show your love to him as another human being by getting away, so as not to be an instrument in his failure to keep his promise.
If he terminates his marriage, maybe then the time will be right.
2006-09-07 07:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, he is already cheating on his wife....... she deserves more from him then that, and honestly, you deserve more from a relationship then second chair then that too. You need to find someone who loves you first and only. And remember that if he were to leave her for you, he'd leave you for someone else too!
2006-09-07 07:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by kim h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no, no and no. Love does not say, 'be the icing on my cake.' You want someone to tell you it's okay, but it's not. He made a promise, and now his word is useless. He gives men a bad name. Find your own husband.
2006-09-07 07:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go right on ahead , if you are into MAJOR heartbreak. Most married men are not , and have NO intentions on leaving their wives. I think you already knew this
2006-09-07 07:39:35 · answer #10 · answered by ridingthestorm_out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋