2006-09-07 07:16:55 · 15 answers · asked by MARY M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men don't tie love and sex together, sweetie!!!
Confucius say: "Man handed @ss on silver platter, gobbles it up, like hungry wolf"!!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-09-07 07:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply because his heart is somewhere else. If he catches feelings for this other women shes good, I say that because most men who cheat( at least the ones I know) may fool around but we know where home is. And besides it may be wrong to have an affair but the way think the women on the side should know her place( if she knows you have someone at home). But some of men know some of you women can't control your feelings.
2006-09-07 14:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by matchbox 78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's for a while look at sex only as a tool for the reproduction of the species. Maybe this you are talking about is simply a survival strategy after all.
A man needs to release his semen as often as possible, and in order to do so, he may need more than a woman (strictly speaking, not every woman is ready for sex each and every day) or otherwise he will need to masturbate himself. Possibly that is why Nature makes it more difficult for a man to develop emotional feelings for a (single) woman. Of course, (modern) men are less subjected to these "natural" laws, civilization has so to say educated men so as to have concerns, so they can also have feelings for women, but these feelings look like less natural for men to have. It is something inculcated, you know.
Now, a woman needs a man not only for intercourse; she needs a man also after intercourse: that is, during pregnancy and after the birth. He needs a man as a protector and a provider. So Nature makes it more natural for women to develop emotional feelings for men.
But as was said above, these natural laws have lost some of their force when sex began to be used as a tool for pleasure. Nowadays, even women can go to bed with a man they don't love, but still something of the ancient primitive law remains, I am afraid.
2006-09-07 14:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by JC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't have emotions when all they are after is getting off.
If a woman is willing to spread her legs and share that part of
her body with a man, well, they are in for a heartache.
Some men show there emotions. Not many though.
Don't expect them to show it the first time you sleep with them
either.
2006-09-07 14:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by cajunlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how men can separate sex from emotions. I'm always disgusted with the sluts who spread their legs for me after I'm done with them, and I feel pissed off when they start crying "You said you loved me" and all that crap, when any girl over 12 would know we only say that so we can slip the sausage into the poophole. So, in other words, I think if a man feels no emotions toward a woman he has sex with, such as disgust and anger, he probably needs counseling.
2006-09-07 18:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by cdrfish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Biologically, men are programed to have intercourse with as many mates as possible to secure another generation of his DNA. Same with most mammals. It is instinct. But since humans are capable of moving beyond their animal impluses, it's not really a valid "reason" to cheat on your partner. For either sex.
Socially, men are encouraged to make a distinction between women as emotional partners and sexual partners. In the past, it was commonplace for a married man to have a mistress for sexual satsifaction and keep sex with his wife for procreation only. Many men today even prefer wives with little to no sexual experience, but willingly find "friends with benefits" for a wild sexual experience.
2006-09-07 14:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by reversechaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sex does not equal love. Lots of women sleep with men they dont have emotions for either. Just because I'm sleeping with him does not mean I love him.
2006-09-07 14:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex and love are very different
affairs and emotions are different too!
they fix the need for the moment
it can be done without emotions
2006-09-07 14:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like those type of men are not serious in life for commitements in a relationship or marriage.reflects unhealthy environment & voila the situation is on rocks.
2006-09-07 14:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep blaming it on men. Typical. Women also-cheat, lie-do all the same stuff.
Oh..for me it's about having fun...and I try to mess around with women who feel the same.Sex is sex.
2006-09-07 14:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋