I get aroused when i urinate and I think hard about my fiance that time but when we indulge in foreplay i dont get aroused as much.Is this normal?
p.s.we have attempted to have sex just once.and we both were virgins that time.
2006-09-07 06:56:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you sweetie? If you're still young and inexperienced, that would explain it. Urination is a strong sensation down there for some gals, especially if your stream aims forward. (I don't want to explain, but you get my drift.)
Don't worry about it being "normal", no two bodies are the same. It took me a long time to learn about my own body, so the lack of arousal is normal.
Once you two get some more experience, or you get with a more experienced partner...all will be well.
2006-09-07 07:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arousal is normal; arousal the first time is affected by fear, contravening moral feelings, place, time, setting, any number of things.
maybe you should wait until you are older, and can prepare properly.
Experience mutual masturbation to orgasm many times before attempting the real thing.
The first time is not going to be anything like you think It's going to be, anyway.
Most girls Say they are disappointed on the first episode. That's natural.
2006-09-07 14:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, it's very important that ya don't push urself to make love with ya partner! well ya shud get aroused but if not then may b ya not up for as yet from ur heart! don't know how old ya r but fact is, both shud it's a stimulation dat comes from touches of ecstacy but not witlh lust. it's shud b skeptic not a manditory. take ya time girl, ya'll get there soon ...
2006-09-07 14:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by don_yourmate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think any females first time feels good it takes time to let go and start having fun. if he can get you aroused do it your self infront of him that will aroused you both.
2006-09-07 14:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mary K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a fetish. Many people have different fetishes and things that don't seem normal turn them on.
Is it normal? Yes it's normal to have fetishes. Besides who's to say what's normal and what's not. Nothing wrong with it, it's just a fetish.
2006-09-07 14:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when men urinate lots of times it has that same feeling of climax but not that strong
2006-09-07 14:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might try to pee frist and stp oncw in w a while its not it has do do with u want to go back to your childhood
2006-09-07 14:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by richard t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are more sensitive around those areas. Everyone is different.
2006-09-07 13:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by nic_tammyscott 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN YOU URINATE!!!! SOUNDS LIKE A JOB FOR R. KELLY!!!
2006-09-07 14:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by Da..KINGizHeRe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you told us and talk about it together !
2006-09-07 14:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋