I have always been attracted to older guys and I know the age difference is huge but I'm crazy about this guy. We've talked and all but I don't know what he would say if I asked him out. He's divorced and I'm a virgin.
What do you think he would say? Am I a sick person for doing this?
2006-09-07 06:48:08 · 20 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is only is the united states where we get so uptight about these things. you are over 18 and you can do what you want. in europe, you see guys in thier 40s with gals in there late teens or 20s all the time. no one cares.
2006-09-07 07:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by alanc_59 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because I fell in love with my boyfriend when I was 15 and he was 30. Now I am 19 and he is 34 and we have a child together. Age is nothing but a number.
2006-09-07 13:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by nena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 and 42
everything is possible
however when it comes to the grass roots he will move on to greener pastures
they say the more younger u girls are the better the fun is.
if ur looking for a steady relationship
then ur on the wrong track
if you are l;ooking for pleasures
then its fine
my personal experience is tht an elderly guy will furnish you with a lot of joys
but only for some time when the want is over ur going to ' GOODBYE TO YOU MY TRUSTED FRND''
2006-09-07 13:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets see, when you are 30, he will be 53, think you will be as crazy for him then? The age difference and subsequent life experience should make it very difficult to relate to each other aside from perhaps sex. But who knows? I can only say it is unlikely anything good will come from it.
2006-09-07 13:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Dane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are crazy for liking this old man you don't have anything in common, he might be using you,please think this through, find someone closer to your own age you will be better off. and since your a virgin he may very well want that from you and then dump you. why else would he be in to you, he is only after one thing. he will use you and then abuse you don't get involved with him please.
2006-09-07 14:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by wolf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever thinkabout the future when he is 60 yrs old and you are 37? How do you expect him to keep up with you and have anything in common by then?
try to find someone closer to your age, you won't feel like you are missing out on life.
2006-09-07 13:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way I am 42 and I havedated alot of 19 year olds
2006-09-07 13:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by jack B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the 42 year old is sick :S
2006-09-07 13:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He would say "I am flattered but you are a little young for me". He is right. It sounds like a school girl crush to me. I know you are 19 but it is still the same thing.
2006-09-07 13:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep talking to him and things will fall into place? Does he call you? Do you call him? Invite him over for some ice cream
2006-09-07 13:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by blueyedimpledguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋