I usually drive to get to my boyfiriend robis house, but once in a while he picks me up, and at night he expects me to drive his car home, so that he doesnt have to drive.
He is wonderful, but this is annoying, because its only 10 mins drive and Im back and forth all the time! Gimme a break! What do you think?
2006-09-07 06:37:00 · 20 answers · asked by Diana 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Yeah it is better for the guy to drive the girl around. That may sound old fashioned but maybe I am!
2006-09-07 06:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just my two cents worth, but I think this is a pretty trivial issue for you to be getting upset about. In relationships, you have to learn to pick your battles. Some things just aren't worth making a fuss about. Look at it this way: He could tell you to walk home, couldn't he? Also, the fact that he is letting you drive his car shows that he trusts you, and that is a BIG deal where guys are concerned (we don't let just anyone borrow our rides). If you want to avoid the situation altogether, just drive your car to his place all the time. Like you said, it's only a ten-minute drive, so what's the big deal?
2006-09-07 13:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by sarge927 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, is it always the case? Cos if he's tired, then maybe it's reasonable once in a while. I do agree that as guys, we should take care of the ladies. Yes, both parties may be tired after a night out but guys being guys should stand up strong and demonstrate their gentlemanly behaviours.
2006-09-07 13:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kreliane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should. But at least he's letting you take his car. This way you don't have to pay for a cab or take the bus or even worse, walk.
On nights where he picks you up, ask him if he'll drive you home. If he says no, then say forget about it I'll do something else.
2006-09-07 15:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that would be the obvious thing to do. I have dated guys with out cars and I drove them home. That's messed up!
2006-09-07 13:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by ericarae1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks you like to drive his car. Next time tell him, "If I drive myself home I have to come back tmorrow to bring you your car back. I am too busy tomorrow, why don't you drive me home instead." Or always come to hbis house with your car. Or dump the lazy b@stard
2006-09-07 13:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how many times you made him smile that night! If you never do anything you deserve to left at the curb side with a black eye!
2006-09-07 14:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but if he cannot drive you back home, the least he can do is make sure you get back safely.
2006-09-07 16:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you can try to convince him to WALK you home....
i guess you are lived in the same street, and he has trouble parking...
i recommend detour, so he pass your house first before passing his own house....seek dating place that can suport that,,,, use map wisely
if all fail, ask your father to drive you 2 on a date
2006-09-07 14:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Henry W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's not so "wonderful" after all. if he was concerned about you he'd get his lazy butt up and drive you home... of course if he's just using you for sex, then he won't want to do that.
2006-09-07 13:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by Rat P... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋