why is it guys can be all like "nothings wrong" and not talk to you -- like REALLY talk to you for days... but if you try it.. its a mortal sin? Is he pushing me away, or having a silent temper tantrum or does he just not like me anymore... what do I make of this voluntary lack of communication on his part?? I love him, and i dont know what to do.
2006-09-07 06:21:10 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just remember this, guys are very moody creatures and handle situations different from girls. When they have their tantrums, leave them alone and let them chill. Eventually they will come back down to earth and will be more in a communicative mood. So don't do anything...When he is ready, he will come back to you.
2006-09-07 06:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls have a higher need for verbal communication, and ongoing NEED to talk. Guys don't. So his not talking is NOT the silent treatment. He just doesn't have anything to say.
The reason guys are so upset about the silent treatment is that we can tell something is wrong, but when we ask, girls just say, I'm not talking to you, or You shouldn't have to ask. Now, does that sound very fair or mature to you for a person (here a girl) to just pout and be mad, and refuse to talk, and then be more mad because we (the guys) won't do anything about whatever is the problem.
2006-09-07 06:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by mikemckewl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys just dont talk as much as girls do. And we find it awfully annoying when girls want to talk about crap we dont care about. However, one thing is not wanting to talk and a very different one is not wanting to be with you at all. Is he still somehow physical with you? No matter how little a guy wants to talk, as long as he is still physical with you, he does care. If he doesnt even want to hold your hand, then its time to move on
2006-09-07 06:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a guy says nothings wrong he is tellin the truth and asking him over and over again he will get mad cause it is nagging but when women say nothin wrong they are most likely lying witch leaves us guys thinking that nothing is wrong and then they get in rouble for not being able to be a human lie detector
2006-09-07 06:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest i just think that all guys don't open up to the people that they are going out with ! guys are just like that ! the only people they open up to would be there guy friends depending on what there problem is other wise they keep it bottled up inside them ! just leave him for a while and he will sort it out on his own don't nag him about it !
2006-09-07 06:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes guys find it hard to talk. Another thing is he might be mad at u and doesn't know how to tell u.
2006-09-07 06:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by angel sent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mortal sin, and you're both going to hell, I can assure you that.
2006-09-07 06:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men can do everything wrong but when a woman does it all hell breaks out. JERKS!!!
2006-09-07 06:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋