Howe many of you gave your ex a second chance?

Question

My ex cheated on me with this unclassy ghetto trash. I carry myself like a lady and I go to school. he wants me back. Of couurse i said no. what would u do or what did ur ex do and now ask for a second chance

Answer 1

Hold your ground. I wouldn't say this about anyone who's thinking of trying things out with their ex, even if they probably won't work out, but I will say this to you since you two broke up because of him cheating. He may try to sweet talk you into getting back with him saying it was the biggest mistake of his life and that it won't happen again, but words are $hit without actions to back them up and I'm sure he'd told you in the past that he'd never cheat on you so his 'word' really doesn't have much weight. You don't deserve to be cheated on. Keep him where he deserves to be, in your past. If you make the mistake of going back to him then get ready for more pain and heat break.

Answer 2

You did the right thing - no matter how badly it may make you feel. I hate it, but I truly believe once a cheater, always a cheater. And that he went for ghetto trash when he has you?! Sheesh, he is SO not worth your time & energy. You be strong & find someone who will appreciate all you have to give & who will walk the same path as you - you can go up, ain't no going back or down! I wouldn't take him back - no way.

Answer 3

They say you're not suppose to backslide.But I gave my ex a second chance.Actually we had to try 4 times b-4 we got it rite.It got better each time 2.And now we're thinkin' about buildin' a life together.U kno ur ex better than i.Ask urself is he worth all the hassle.He probably wants to use u 2 make someone else jealous or she probably left him and he can't stand the fact of being alone.Add up all the good things he's done for u and compare dem to all the bad things.Which outweighs which?

Answer 4

i'm lower back with my ex. that's the two the 4th or 5th time we've been in a courting. I nonetheless won't be able to artwork out however if this is "meant to be" or "meant to no longer be". All i be responsive to is that we the two love one yet another very plenty yet we pass nowhere coz there has in no way been any intimacy and that i shop believing grants that there will be. After a whilst, i'm getting uninterested and end, yet then I fall for the comparable previous empty grants. i won't be able to help it - she's quite warm (MtF TS) yet there is greater to her than only stable seems.

Answer 5

IF HE CHEATED THAT'S A BIG NO! YOU CAN FIND A MAN BETTER THAN THAT AND HE WILL VALUE YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE WORTH WHICH IS MORE THAN WHAT THAT MAN IS OFFERING MAYBE HE GOT WITH THAT GIRL BECAUSE HE'S ALSO UNCLASSY GHETTO TRASH!!! LEAVE HIM AND MOVE ON HE WILL SEE WHAT HE LOST LET HIM STAY WITH HIS TRASH YOU TAKE CARE OF YOUR DIAMONDS

Answer 6

Don't mess with him until you know you have him ready and dying to do whatever you say. Guys like it when you order them around like dogs. Plus that, I'm sure ghetto trash would get mad

Answer 7

I have plenty of times there great for f**k buddies, quickys, you know how they are and there doesnt have to be anythg there just dont kiss the boy thats a true blue fack of life if you dont want to fall in love dont kiss on the lips

Answer 8

A year ago I would say try to start off fresh, right from the beginning and be friends for awhile...see if you can forgive and forget and move on..

Now, I would said **** him.
there are WAAAAAAAAAY to many awesome guys out there that you haven't met yet who would NEVER do that to you...
go find one of them....

and good luck honey

Answer 9

I gave both of my ex-wives second chances after they cheated on me. I guess I've come to realize that most women cheat. Guys, I guess you have to get used to it. Sigh.

Answer 10

i have n it was worth it.

<3 Love Always <3

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