why does the women always depends on the men?

Question

I dont understand this at all. We always says that "ladies first" and also "what a man can do a woman can do far better? if so then why the women dont make it real to prove it by themselves?

Answer 1

You just don't know any independent women, but we really do exist.

Answer 2

We are taught that most marriages fail that is the facts.
So go to VOTECH get a good job and support yourself because at some point in your life you are going to be going it alone.
Don't depend on some man, prince Charming to come by and sweep you off your feet and make a living for you. Because it just isn't going to happen. How much more realistic can we get?
We know the score! We are getting training in computer programing, nurses, accounting, etc.
The women in USA is the most educated of any women in the world. And most of us will work as long as any man.
So since most of us are on the pill. We don't want babies.
Are you men really sure that will make you happy?
Or are you all homosexuals and don't need us anyway?

Answer 3

1.) you need to learn to NOT put all women in one group.
2.) I am 19 and married, I dont "depend" on no one not even my husband. We both work and both handle our self's. We dont depend on each other for anything other than support.
3.) I don't have to prove anything to you. You are nobody and what others do with their life dont concern you.
4.) The term " ladies first" is something that originates from way back in the olden days. It is NOT something new. Its out of respect and manners. Some women like it others dont. I dont have my man open a door for me, or stop and wait for me to walk in a place first we walk in together or right behind each other it dont matter.
5.) What are you so narrow minded to try to put women on one group? Do you know ALL women? No you don't so until you do stop grouping them together based upon what little experience you do have. Grow up!

Answer 4

Boy, you have no idea what you are talking about. Look around you and really see what women do everyday. I always valued and loved my mother, but after having kids of my own, I valued and loved her so much more. You try pushing something the size of a cantaloupe through an exit on your body and tell me afterwards if you think women depend on men.

We work, raise children, cook, clean and have to look good doing it all and then some.

Find a single mother and live with her for a week....I think you'll change your mind after that as well.

Answer 5

you have alot of questions up there.
ladies first means, you should open doors or pull out chairs etc for ladies....Now there are some women that feel the same way that men do.....by stating we can do it better than you, blah blah blah.....In some cases women are forced to do things by themselves, like raise the kids, pay the bills, etc

I'm not sure what your issue is but, if you have a woman that depends on you, you should be grateful and do things for her.....I'm sure she does things for you......it's not easy to find a good woman these days.....not too many of us are depending on men like we used to......

I hope this helped your situation.....Peace

Answer 6

I was the one depended on in my last marriage. He opened the door for me and made sure I was on the inside of the sidewalk when we went out, but I made more money, paid the bills, had the only car in the house (brought the car into the relationship), and took care of the house. Then found out when I was at work ( I worked nights), instead of him watching the kids, he was going out, using my ATM card to take money out to do drugs.
Ten years later, I've got the man of my dreams and we take care of each other (in all ways) and my ex is living at home with his mother.
Good independent women are out there, just stop blocking your path with the ones you don't want. You're tripping your own self up.

Answer 7

I think that your question would have been better posed as "why do SOME women". Most of it seems to be stereotypical rhetoric and all people do not fit under this umbrella.

I had been single most of my life up till about seven years ago. I had a house, a career, paid my bills and killed my own spiders prior to my husband. Matter of fact I still have all of those things and more now and my husband and I depend on each other.

Answer 8

I'm tempted to blast you on your poor spelling and grammar and tell you to haul your butt back to school to get a proper education, but I'll let you slide this time ;-)

I don't depend on a man for anything. I can take care of myself and have for years. I have always told a man when he enters my life that "I don't need you. So if I am with you,it's because I want to be."

For some men, that hasn't been good enough -- there are men who MUST feel needed by a woman. For the right man (for me) that was perfect!

Answer 9

you are generalizing here! I am a single mother and I own my own place and bought my own car, I support myself and my child 100%. I'm a strong independent woman and I don't need a man...I don't hate men at all, I just think that your generalization here is insulting to women like me! open your mind, woman don't always depend on men!!!

Answer 10

I'm sorry to tell you that you are terribly misinformed. It sounds like you have some individual experience with a little girl who just wants to be taken care of. Many of the women out there do, and have been, taking care of themselves (& often their children) for many years.....all by themselves. Myself included.

There is a difference between hospitality and courtesy, and that which you are implying.

Answer 11

I believe that in nature, in the natural order of things, men were meant to take care of women and their offspring.............women decided that they wanted equality and now there is residual dependency that will wane and disappear in future generations. It is an awkward time for men.