I love my best (girl) friend very much. I'm not sure if she knows how much I care for her. Please can you give me advice on how EXACTLY to tell her. You must understand, I am 15 so I don't want to sound all corny and stupid, I just want to tell her and then she will know. Where, when and how exactly should I do this? Also, bare in mind if I want to tell her outside of school, we will have to arange to meet up, and that would probly change the dynamics of it. Thanks for any help! Btw, I mean all this in a friendship way, I am not asking her to go out with me.
2006-09-07 06:17:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The next time she does something for you, or you have just had a great time together, look her in the eye, and, speaking with a sincere tone of voice, say, "Thank you! I love you, my friend." And then go on with whatever you would normally do or say next in the conversation if you had NOT just said that. In other words, don't wait for her to say she loves you back, because she may not want to. If she really does decide she wants to say she loves you too, she will in her own time.
2006-09-07 06:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion if you don't want to date her then I wouldn't bother saying anything because that is just the impression that she is going to get. Actions speak louder than words, start treating her in a special way. Always be polite to her and listen to her, and just basically start being a gentleman. Don't act phony, just treat her based on the way you feel about her. Gradually she will probably be able to notice and may even start asking around if she gets curious about it. then someone might even end up asking you if you like her in that way and then the pressure is off, all you have to do is say yes or not really or kind of or something in that genre. I have been in a similar situation, make her notice how much you like her before you tell her, and no corny come ons those NEVER work.
2006-09-07 07:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by malsvb6 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh how cute! Ok this is what you do:
To get her alone and away from possibly her girlfriends. Maybe in school by the lockers you can say "I need you to meet me outside (at whatever spot that's comfortable for you both) tell her while standing by the lockers that you found something real interesting and you want her to take a look at it because you can't figure out what it is. Also tell her to come alone because you don't want to share what you found with anyone else until she sees it.
Once you get to the spot, lay it on her. And try to keep your composure. Don't show the nervousness if you can help it. Be more confident.
Hope it works out!
2006-09-07 06:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only mean this in a friendship way she may find it kinda creepy. Just being a good friend will make her know how much you care. Unless you want to be more than Friends, I say just tell her that you value her friendship and leave it at that.
2006-09-07 06:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need 2 tell her how u feel. If u wait something could happen and you won't be able 2. Another thing is u need 2 tell her face 2 face somehow. NOT over the phone. Good Luck!!
2006-09-07 06:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by angel sent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel, if she feels the same way then everything will work out great. On the other hand, if she doesn't feel the same way at least you can still be friends. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-09-07 06:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by sleeper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand your question, you want her to know how much her friendship means to you. I think just tell her. She probably feels the same way. It is fine to have a girl friend that is just that a friend. I think, yea, just tell her how much she means to you. She will appreciate it.
Be careful, she may want more....
2006-09-07 06:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by ransdoll90 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her when you two are having a really good time together, but don't drag it out. Just tell her and let her think about what she wants to tell you about how she feels. She might be happy, or she might freak out and not talk to you, just to for warn you.
2006-09-07 06:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by JULES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three easy steps:
1. Show her your nunchuck skills.
2. Show her your computer hacking skills.
3. Draw a portait or her OR bake her a cake.
She will see how much you care for her.
2006-09-07 06:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its just a friendship thing then why all the drama. Shes already your best friend. Just tell her.
2006-09-07 06:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by marie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋