2006-09-07 06:12:28 · 33 answers · asked by ntu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This doesn't have to be a confrontation. The beauty is that some people are so eager to please and so considerate of their partner that you don't even have to give him instructions. All you have to do is casually say something like "Here, I like it when a guy kisses me like ----" and show, tell, explain, etc. Or if there's something he does a lot that you dislike, you don't have to say that you dislike it when he does it. Just say "I like it more when you do this ---" and give him a common alternative. This doesn't have to be an issue unless you turn it into one. Or he's an old dog that can't learn new tricks. Good luck either way.
2006-09-07 06:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
How do you know that hes the one who kisses terribly? for all you know he could be thinking your a terrible kisser and doesn't know how to tell you. People generally cant help the way they kiss a person and its improbable that they could change it to suit, so my personal opinion is that if two people are not compatible kissers then the chances are the relationship is not compatible either and come short or long term wont last as the right kiss between two people can, does and should mean everything. x
2006-09-07 06:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by odette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't you hate that?! if this is a casual relationship, let him go. if this is someone you are very serious about, you're gonna have to tell him how you feel - AND how you want to be kissed!! He might be open to change - you can try by showing him exactly what you want. My ex husband was a horrible kisser & even tho we were married 9 years, he never would change what he did, no matter how many times I asked him to!! (any wonder he's an ex?!) Try to tell him as kindly as possible, or wait till ya'll are gettin romantic & then show him the moves that make you melt!
He would probably listen to you more if you try then!! And if it's a matter of oral hygiene (bad breath, rotten teeth, etc) take him to a dentist. good luck & have fun showing him your moves!!!
2006-09-07 06:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, when my husband and I dated in high school, he was a terrible kisser, we broke up for about a year and when we started dating again, he had learned!! I only wish I had been the one to teach him!
So, just let him know what you like, softer, not so sloppy, less tongue or whatever, dont be rude, just let him know what you like!
2006-09-07 06:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by whaaatthe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not what you say, it's how you say it. Be gentle, tell him once you 2 are both in bed. He's not hardly going to take the time in the evening to leave you there alone. Being nude might help as well.
Just be honest and teach him to kiss you the way you want to be kissed. I'm sure he would much rather please you then to lose you.
2006-09-07 06:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what he's doing wrong... show him what you want out of the kiss and teach him. Some have to be schooled on the art of kissing...
2006-09-07 06:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...Slowly teach him to be good at it. Tell hiim to try this and try that, just b/c you want hiim to. He shouldn't oppose....ha. Anyone can be turned into a good kisser.
2006-09-07 06:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you like this person. maybe you could coach him. try to do it in a non hurtful way. don't tell him he sucks. tell him the way you liked to be kissed.
2006-09-07 06:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work with it and make him do what you want guys like that when women take control
2006-09-07 06:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by bernie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him, spend the time to show him how you want to be kissed! wow, class work and fun at the same time!
2006-09-07 06:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋