why is it so meaningful to people. I mean...who cares if someone has sex with someone to just have sex with them. What is the big deal????????
2006-09-07 06:04:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex isn't a peppermint candy. You don't just give it to everyone. You have sex with someone that you respect and respects you, or you are just a ho.
2006-09-07 06:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There have been many societies in history in which casual sex was not frowned upon. Our current attitudes are a product of our culture, not some sort of natural law that applies to every time and place.
Personally, I really don't care how much you screw around as long as the sex is consensual. Just make sure you take proper precautions.
Of course, if someone has a spouse or "significant other", then that person is affected too, and should be taken into consideration...
2006-09-07 13:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True. But if you are married and doing that, its not just sex anymore. How I see it, its a violation of your marriage and morally wrong and taking something away from your spouse. I really can't stand when some ppl say its just sex when they cheat or swing. Because to me its not just sex, its a physical expression of how you feel. More like enforcing the words I love you. But when you do it with someone that is meaningless then you are devaluing all the love you shared with your spouse.
2006-09-07 13:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you believe in the lord above? Do you watch,listen to the news? (aids) all kind of good stuff to catch. If you think a condom is safe. Nope not all the time.. Do you feel better about yourself,when you are alone in front of a mirror. It should only for someone you trust,care about. Or when you are marred......
2006-09-07 13:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by dupont24cr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the big deal is that it is a very personal thing. How can you do something so personal with someone and not have some feelings for that person.
2006-09-07 13:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is supposed to be an intimate act shared between two people. Anyway would you let just anyone touch your private area? I know I wouldnt. Do you not get the whole point of private?
2006-09-07 13:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by LadyRaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different standards, morals. Some of us are comfortable with casual sex while others simply dont understand it. It just is.
2006-09-07 13:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long at it`s not fornication (sex without marriage) or adultery (one of the two is married)
it`s fine and dandy.
according to God.
2006-09-07 13:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jillibean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With this belief in good time you shall see the big deal! young ladie!
2006-09-07 13:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by wise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when you have sex it's like giving a piece of yoursellf to another person and afterwards it hurts if they leave you for someone else. you never get that piece back.
2006-09-07 13:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by demonswt88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋