My boyfriend and I have been dating almost 5 months and he thinks I should completely trust him by now. I think it's too soon. He says it's the number one reason he does not yet consider me the "love of his life" and his number one worry about our relationship. He already trusts me completely. He calls me his partner-in-crime & best friend. I feel the same way, but I have issues with the trust even though he's never given me a reason not to trust him.
2006-09-07 06:01:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust does not happen in a set time. A person has to earn your trust. It could happen in a month or a year. It depends. But I dont understand why he says that because you do not trust him he does not consider you the love of his life. If he trusts you and he is in love with you, then he will feel that way whether you trust him or not.
My opinion... You cant say that you dont trust him because of past trust issues. You must have some kind of feeling that causing this distrust.
I was in a relationship with somebody for 12 years. He cheated, and I could no longer trust him. And now, Im in a LDR with a man I have know for about 2 years, and I have NO trust issues with him. Never thought that would be the case. So my point is...something is making you not trust him.
2006-09-07 06:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is what makes a relationship.
If there isn't trust then there is no reason that you should be together.
I have been divorced and my husband at the time crushed the trust that I had for him and made me not trust for a while. But the man that I am with now has put that trust back into our relationship and I have never been more happier than I am now. You have to have that trust in the relationship to feel that security.
2006-09-07 06:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone should demand to be trusted completely. Thats ridiculous.Trust is something that has to be earned with time, patience and good communication.Sometimes as women/girls our gut instincts KNOW something isn't quite right with a guy but we try to ignore that because society thinks it isn't cool to expect a partner to be honest.We're all human and we all make mistakes. No one can ever truly say 100% that they are someone to always be counted on.We all just do the best that we can at any given time.Listen to your self first and allow his behavior NOT his words to guide you about what you should do.
2006-09-07 06:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Yahooanswerssux 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is always hard in a relationship. You should trust him until he gives you a reason not to. You've probably been hurt in the past and find it hard to do this, but don't let baggage from past relationships ruin something that may be a good relationship.
Give him a chance.
Good Luck.
2006-09-07 06:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one learns to trust, and there is no limit of time for that.....why does he want trust so soon in a relationship, that would make me think about what his reasons, what is he hiding, always go with your feelings and do not let others push you into things....
2006-09-07 06:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by walterknowsall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 04:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by marianna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u were ever in a relationship with a guy who wasn't trutworthy you're probably still paranoid from it.And the best advice I can give is to trust your instincts and follow your heart.But its probably nothin to worry about.
2006-09-07 06:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by Shaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no set time 2 trust someone, trust has 2 b earned, whenever u feel it's right than that's when u can trust.
2006-09-07 06:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you can be in a 40 yr relationship and still not completely trust the other person.
2006-09-07 06:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by grl_addict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not trust him if he hasnt given you reasons not to?
2006-09-07 06:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋