see you. I have seen her a total of 5 hours this whole week. She is in college, and lives in the dorms, yet she cant seem to give me 30 minutes for dinner or something...Hmmmm....
2006-09-07 05:36:43 · 13 answers · asked by d2113 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for the help everyone...we Just broke up. She says she is too busy too juggle both. I am 23...It takes more than an hour a week. Thanks~
2006-09-07 06:33:52 · update #1
SHE PROBABLY IS BUSY, YOU SHOULD KNOW HOW BUSY IT GETS WHEN YOU'RE IN COLLEGE.
YOU SHOULD POP UP ONE DAY-DONT LET HER KNOW YOU'RE GOING AT ALL. POP UP TAKE SOME DINNER WITH YOU AND A COUPLE OF CANDLES- IT COULD TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD NIGHT.
IF YOU POP UP AND SEE SHE'S BUSY WITH A GUY AND NOT HER BOOKS- WHOOP SOME ***.
IF SHE DOES HAVE HER BOOKS IN HER FACE PREP YOUR DINNER TABLE AND YOU DO YOUR THANG!!
GOOOOOODLUCK
2006-09-07 06:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by GrownNSexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to dinner and talk to her about it. Maybe she has a hard course load this semester. Maybe she also wants to make friends with the people in her dorm. Tell her that you understand everything that she is going through and you love the fact that she is enjoying college dorm life. But maybe there is a certain day that the two of you can sit aside for "date night" where you can have her all to yourself. No worries I am sure everything will turn out fine. Best of Luck.
2006-09-07 12:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by sweetcaraline_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? Give it a lil time. She is probably adjusting to the college scene and wants to get her feet wet and be free. The first few weeks of school can be hectic for some. Just be understanding. Stick around and if it becomes a real problem, talk to her about it calmly.
2006-09-07 12:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm its sad to say that she may be cheating but that should be your last idea. it could b that she is very tied up in her work right now and doesn't have much time to for u like she would want or it could be the sad truth that she isn't being faithful. then sometimes u have to look at yourself n make sure your still the same person because sometimes something about u could have changed and cause her not to want to spend time with you or even try to make time to spend time with u. then there are ways to find out if she's cheating. arrange for one of her friends to ask her to go to the movies one sat. that same day u should ask first if she tells u no and her friend yes than u know something is not right. but if u trust her n u dont believe she is being unfaithful then i would say to just let her do her school work and chances are she'll make time for u when she can
2006-09-07 12:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jasona j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a life at college, and it's very hard to make time for you. That is a very common thing, and the reason most relationships don't last from high school to college. If you really want this to work, you need to sit down with her and tell her what you need. If you need more time, then tell her. If she says no, then you need to move on.
2006-09-07 12:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by natex14 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is key here. she will be very busy with college but if she can not find any time for you something else is going on ask her honestly if she has lost feelings for you and tell her you need honesty because you need to know what you are going to do with your life. if she is not interested anymore she should let you go so you can get on with your life. it may be a hard thing to do if you really care but better to find out now than wait until she finds someone else without telling you that either.
2006-09-07 12:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not good.
i would be concerned as to where the realtionship is going. if you want my opinion i would sit her down and assertain if theres a problem. if she says no and this behavior persists, i think you need to walk away. whats the point in having a g/f you never see? none. good luck mate. hope it works out.
2006-09-07 12:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by Paul D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better start spying on her! call Cheaters show or something. she probably is spending all her spare time with that cute dorm guy everyone wants to be with. you better talk to her and get a copy of her schedule, she can't be that busy?????!
2006-09-07 12:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by fatiima 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since she is in college she might be busy doing school work. give her sometime
2006-09-07 12:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by jess08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might really be busy give her the benifit of the doubt and talk to her about it
2006-09-07 12:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by sexyandsingle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋