isn't ur girlfriend enough for u????what do u enjoy the best in porn movies?seeing another woman getting ******?i dont know,maybe u wish u were there when u r watching ?
plz tell me why my boyfriend cant stop wtching them!!he always says our sex is great!so what the hell is wrong with him?i decided to break up with him many times !but my buddy told me all the guys are the same!u know he is my first love!it makes me cry somtimes!!!!
i dont know!whats wrong with him !?is all the men the same?what should i do?
do u guys want to be instead of the guy in the movies?do u want have sex with girl in the movies or u watching it and imagen ur gf who u love her????plz answer thiz Q !ur answer cant solve my problem thank u !
2006-09-07 05:14:13 · 20 answers · asked by baby_doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, not all guys are like that. It's usually the young ones who are first experiencing sex, that are really ****** up in thier way of thinking. Second, I don't watch porn, my girlfriend is enough. Please dump this guy, anyone who takes his girl to see PORN does not respect that girl. Please don't give up on us, there are a lot of nice guys out there who would love to be faithful to just one Lady.
2006-09-07 05:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by want to know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a guy thing you know. It is the same with you women. Why do you like bags or shoes so much? don't you have one already? Why can't you stop buying them? How bout make up, why do you always use makeup? Why do you gossip so much? Why do you check out guys so much? Why do you say "oh that Step up guy is so hot"?
Bottomline, most guys are just horny bastards. But getting off from porn is not the same as cheating with another woman. It is all just in the head. Don't you look at celebrities and imagine "Oh I'd like to be done by him?" But the thing with your problem is that why the hell do you know about your x bf's habits and why the hell does he tell you? I guess he wants to let you know that he is a horny bastard and would like to do you similar to the porn positions and would like to do it often.
But watching porn is not physically cheating. So if you love him enough eventhough he is one horny bastard then I say just be with him. Hope it helps even a little.
2006-09-07 05:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm probably gonna be the lone guy here to make this comparison, but I'll play martyr for the day. Guys just like porn. There is nothing wrong with that. It has nothing to do with you, or how we feel about you, or anything like that. It's just a type of movie that we like. It is the same as women likeing romantic movies. Women, and this is by self-admission from many women, like romantic movies because it supplements their own love life. It gives them more of it, and in some cases, it gives them things that they can't get in real life.
And if you want to claim that whatever you see on a porn, you will do for your man, that is a lie. I bet, if he were to ask you to do a threesome with him and some 18 year old virgin, you'd flip out on him for it.
Back to my original point, guys watching porn is the same as girls watching romance flicks. So if you want him to stop watching porn for you, let him choose the movie EVERY time you want to go out or rent something. That's fair, I think.
2006-09-07 05:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by deusdragonex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think porn is boring...they all start and end the same.
Porn is like watching two dogs going at it in the street!!
There is a great book that can help him, I think its called " every mans challenge." It explains the problem with male sexual lust.
2006-09-07 05:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Commander 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watching pornography is very natural. Some do some do not.
However one could get addicted to it. Does he HAVE to watch it? Does he always masturbate?
It could be that he is attempting to learn something new. Unless he is watching the same one over and over.
I find it entertaining just like watching any other movie.
Watch it with him, and talk about it.
2006-09-07 05:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. Guys like what guys like, girls like what they like. It's like a guy complaining about if you wished you were the girl in a chick flick...............it's a movie. Girls can have their feminine movies, guys can have porn.....it's natural. It's nothing more than self release and a good way to relax or relieve stress, USUALLY has nothing to do with the sex life with our girlfriend or wife, etc, etc...........unless of course they are with a prude or someone who just doesn't fulfill their fantasies, then that's their terms of escape lol.
2006-09-07 05:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever we watch a movie (whatever type is) some projection will always be there for both the sexes... Intensity might vary.. tackle this problem patiently... sometime extending cooperation in his or her activity produce very good results...
2006-09-07 05:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The porn has nuttin to do with you its just a guy thing kind of like women and ELLe magazine. Take advantage of it , you ever join him in watching it (it could be fun). I watch porn and my wife is totally ok with it cause when she gets home its on like Donkey Kong.
2006-09-07 05:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by t31sfd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men love fantasy, i do not watch porn but have watched it a few times when i was younger. Some guys get obsessed about it and its called lust. Its not you its like a addiction. Not all men watch it
2006-09-07 05:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by patrick b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf has a porn problem..... alot of guy's do this.. i should know because i'm a guy. my nephew has a major porn problem and he's married, his wife doesn't like it..... but he's very faithful 2 her... most guy's like porn, and they watch a skin flick Yes, your right they picture thereself doing it to the girl...... this is normal , unless he's doing it everyday. then it isn't. good luck. if he is faithful 2 u i wouldn't worry about it.
2006-09-07 05:22:54 · answer #10 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋