i met this guy at work, and we became friends and started talking more and going out to movies.. we had sex plenty of times and it was amazing. but out of that time it has only been 2 weeks, then we stared to drift off from eachother but i still think about him daily. he calls me every other day to see how im doing, but we dont hang out anymore, i want to know whats the problem, did i come on too strong for him, or is it because he feels the same way and is waiting on me, do i tell him or leave it aolne?
2006-09-07 05:01:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are concerned about what's up with him? I think you should more be concerned about what's up with you. You hardly know the guy and you were having sex with him. We all know that even though it it not right, society will look down on a woman sleeping around, than they would a male sleeping around. You both have to worry about diseases, but you have something extra to worry about and that is the possibility of getting pregnant. What if you were pregnant now and he left, then what? Would you just start having sex within the first month of meeting someone else? You need to slow down there girl. He got just what he wanted. You must learn to hold out and not give up your body so quickly. If a guy can respect that and wait for you, then you know it is not just about sex. You get a person to respect you more when you don't give in so quickly. If other guys heard that you gave in so quickly, they will come and do the same thing and you will go through it again and again. Leave him alone and if he cares, he will get in contact with you, but in the meantime, you need to find some self-respect. If he does contact you, just ask him to tell you exactly what his intentions are regarding your friendship. If you can respect yourself, others will learn to respect you too. I wish you all the best.
2006-09-07 06:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if a man is interested in you, he calls you all the time and wants to be with you all the time. He's calling you every other day just to keep in touch and perhaps get another booty call if the mood strikes him. Regardless of what you did or did not do, he is just not into you. Move on!! He doesn't deserve you!
2006-09-07 05:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i hate to be the bearer of bad news sweetheart but unless its just a sex thing let it go or you will end up getting your feelings hurt. sounds like you jumped before you looked. think about it two weeks plenty of sex and hanging out you said it your self
2006-09-07 05:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by lucihini_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 04:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by marianna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's either, a) he just wanted the sex...sadly sorry, or b) he does love you and is shy. But if you feel as though you're drifting, then it's probably not love.
2006-09-07 05:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by CE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had sex with him. So, he got what he wanted from you, and keeps you on the back burner in case he wants to get laid again.
2006-09-07 05:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by Laquishacashaunette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOVE TAKES LONGER THAN 1 MONTH TO ACQUIRE. HE GOT WHAT HE WANTED, LEAVE HIM ALONE AND MOVE ON. WHO KNOWS MAYBE HE WILL RELIZE THAT HE REALLY LIKED YOU, MAYBE NOT, BUT YOU WON'T BE SITTING AROUND WAITING FOR HIM.
2006-09-07 05:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would withhold privliges and see if he loves you first
2006-09-07 05:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him
2006-09-07 05:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by Annabelle418 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask him wat up? that way you can either get together or move on you can do it kinda casual like why dont we hang out anymore we use to have fun? and seewhat happens .....good luck
2006-09-07 05:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by sexyandsingle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋