I don't believe that at all.... I mean for real, how can this be true? Well I understand that when you're in love (even if you're the only one in love) that is it beautiful, and wonderful and all the Sh!t, but I don't think that is better then never being in love! You can't miss what you never had. So how can that that quote be true. If i had never been in love, i wouldn't know what i was missing, but after i have been in love then i gonna long for that feeling again and i'll feel hurt and heartbroken that it is gone. So what i am tryin to say is, isn't it better to have never been in love, then be in love and lost it? B/C if you had never had experenced love then you can't miss it, but if you had experienced it you'll be reminded of that pain everyday!!!
2006-09-07 04:54:04 · 12 answers · asked by :Dazed and Confused: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whatever it is, let it go! Believe me, life goes on.
2006-09-07 05:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by W R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think the quote is right. Sure you feel pain when the love is gone, but love and relationships teach you a lot of things, about yourself, about life. And then when you finally do find love again you can find that you are more in love now then you were before. True if you have never been in love you would not know what you were missing, but you would also not have much to look forward to. The pain of losing a love does not last forever, but the memories and joys of being in love do.
2006-09-07 05:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My second husband cheated on me with a co worker. I forgave him. Caught him cheating on me again. I didn't forgive him. We separated for 9 months. Then got divorced and a month later he died in a car accident. His body was totally burnt except his genital area. Yeah it was horrible. I loved him so much I would not have been able to handle his death if I was still with him. Even though we were apart at the time of his death I almost lost my mind. But I always say everything happens for a reason. I was being prepared in a terrible way (with the cheating and divorce) to be able to let go of him when he died. God knows how weak I am. I have to see it this way in order to deal with it. He died in 1996. He was 24 years old. He had just graduated from the police academy. He was only on the job 4 months. He died in a car crash with 3 of his co-workers. The point to all of this story is that I don't regrete the love and the experience I had with my second husband. It just made me stronger. He came to me in a dream one month after he died. Dressed in white asking me to forgive him and that he knew I was a good woman, to live my life and that someday the man that was supposed to be with me would show up. Well I married a third time, he left me. Now I am with my first husband. After 14 years of not knowing about him we found eachother. Life is crazy. In the dream my second husband said when you find that man you will remember this dream. Well when I found my first husband again, because my first husbands son was going to the army, I dreamt again the dream was my second husband smiling and saying "you found him" WOW my mind is a mess ! But I loved the whole experience and It has been so worth it to have loved and lost.
2006-09-07 05:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Here I am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fairly that quote by technique of Alfred Lord Tennyson is real, and also you're interpreting too a lot into it i imagine. also it is the completed and proper citation: I carry it real, whate'er befall; i believe it, when I sorrow maximum; 'Tis extra appropriate to have loved and misplaced Than in no thanks to have loved in any respect. - From his poem, In Memoriam:27, 1850. you spot what Tennyson is making an attempt to assert is that, is to stay a existence with out any type of love is a sad existence. you ought to accept as true with that, do not you at the moment?
2016-11-06 20:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all! No matter who you are you've experienced some kind of love. By having had love and lost it, theres always a chance that you will find it again. But never having it to begin with means that your missing out on one of life's greatest experiences. "It's better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all!"
2006-09-07 05:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u even feel pain, then it's good for u. It means u live. Love gives people strength, even if it's going to end. Everything has its end and love is not an exception. While u're in love, u're happy and these moments of pleasure are worthy of the fact that someday ur Happiness will b over.
2006-09-07 05:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by Greeneyed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is life babygirl.
You love the best you can and deal with the rejections.
There aren't any "do-overs" in this life, "missed opportunities" will gnaw at you worse than "losted Loves".
2006-09-07 05:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Tyler Durdin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is true, what if you never expierence love, then you will have never expierenced tru happiness and should anyone live their whole life never haveing been happy? it is like never trying anything new, food, job, bungy jumping just cause your scared...who wants to live like that? you only live once and you should do all you can to expierence every second of it, otherwise you can just sit alone in your house and eat and sleep just to survive then die one day.
2006-09-07 04:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather have had sometime with a woman and let her go, then not having anytime with her at all and regretting it for the rest of my life!
2006-09-07 05:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't propose a question but I absolutly agree with you and this is one saying that I was ALWAYS against.
2006-09-07 04:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋