I have excellent teeth no cavities and they are pearly white I have even had them bleached but he still does not want to kiss me we have been together for 4 years now and it hurts, we make love all the time but he does not want to kiss me he goes down on me and kiss me only when he is drunk any ideas why he will not kiss me. What should I do.I have never had this problem before.
2006-09-07 04:28:22 · 16 answers · asked by lucky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive had a bf who didnt want to kiss
but he didnt want to do anything else either
your man is just a werido
ask him why he wont kiss you but he will do all this other stuff to you
tell him its really upsetingyou
maybe he has insecurites with his own teeth or something
you never know
ohh
and if this keeps happening
get him drunk
ALOT
I hope this helps
2006-09-07 04:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by x3holdaloverclose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that this has anything to do with your teeth. That is really strange. Did he ever kiss you? I mean in the beginning of the relationship? Kissing is a big sign of affection and closeness. Are there any other problems in the relationship? I mean sex is sex and some people can have sex even with no feelings, but kissing means something more sometimes. If its just that he does not like kissing, then tell him about it. Tell him that it makes you feel uncomfortable that you guys, make love, but he wont even kiss you.
I can remember at one time, when an old BF of mine and me broke up. He would come around sometimes, sometimes we had sex, but he did not kiss me either during the breakup. And I think its because he just wanted sex, and wanted me to know that that was all it was. Nothing more.
So I would look into other issues of the relationship and see if there are any problems that need to be worked out.
2006-09-07 04:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit him on his butt and tell him exactly how u feel about this! THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU this sounds like alllll his problem! And u cant really fix it until u know what the problem is! Stop the sex thing until he can give you the love-kisses and foreplay you truly do need! Kissing is soooo important in a relationship! The best part! Tell him how u feel and try to get him to open up to u! If not- stop giving him one thing he really likes- like oral sex and see how long it takes him to notice! When he asks just say- OH Ill do that again- once we start kissing! Good luck to you and remember- this is HIS problem and NOT you at all!
2006-09-07 04:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out what the problem is..4 years is a very long time to go without being kissed..it shows love and caring..just going down on you is sex and more..but kissing IS BASIC...find out.. :)
2006-09-07 04:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Doug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he goes down on you, isn't that considered the ultimate kiss? If it bothers you that much, you might want to ask him why he won't kiss you on the mouth. Maybe he has a good reason.
2006-09-07 04:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've spent 4 years with someone who won't kiss you?
Personally, I wouldn't have had a second date with a lady who didn't like smooching.
2006-09-07 04:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably insecure about kissing. I my self do not like french kissing, I don't lnow why other than it doesn't do it for me. Talk to him on why he doesn't. Communication is the key to a long relationship. Good luck. Don't worry, it's not you.
2006-09-07 04:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby he thinks he has bad breath or bad teeth him self. If he goes down on you then he dosnt have a brobllem with thinking its nasty. YOur best bet is to ask him why he won't kiss you. Tell him it bothers you.
2006-09-07 04:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new boyfriend, if after four years of being together he still does not want to kiss you sober, then he must have issues. even fat ugly girls with nasty mouth hygiene get kissed by their man once in a while... geez
2006-09-07 04:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men just don't like kissing. I think you find one. Good Luck!
2006-09-07 04:32:02 · answer #10 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋