He flirted for weeks,admitted he liked me ( I said It was both ways) but now he says that I am just a big sister!! he is younger by the way!!We met abroad and have kept in touch by email/text.
2006-09-07 04:21:22 · 13 answers · asked by Doris 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boys eh? I can't believe they say women are complex when you don't know where you are with them one day to the next! It sounds a bit cheesy, but don't don't don't think it's about you - you would drive yourself mad if you did....it could be any number of things that are all HIS issues, but all you'd be doing is speculating, you'll never get a real answer - even if you ask him (as they lie!!) So, the best thing is to remember he did really like you and nothing changed for you, just for him - it must be because something far better is meant for you, with someone honest, genuine and mature!
Get yourself out with your mates and drink him right out of your hair! xx
2006-09-07 04:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a tactic.
By saying that he puts pressure on you to prove you are not like an older sister - it's all part of a larger plan to seduce you.
Often confusing girls and giving mixed signals is a good way to keep them interested as you excite them. I know it sounds weired, but that's women for you (no offence).
2006-09-07 08:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Young Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has probably found some one else to go out with him before you did. the only thing you can do is ask him if he has a girlfriend. If he says yes then thats probbaly what happened. If you are serious about him then tell him. Ask him out. If he really likes you he will wait. If he says he has a girlfriend then wait untill he and she break up. It will happen. when it does ask him out.
2006-09-07 04:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he generally does like you, and plus he finds that he can confide in you. Just because he says u are like a big sister does not necessarily mean that he mucking you around.
2006-09-07 04:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by foxy emz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is guys suck sometimes and it sounds like he might have met someone else even know he said he has/had a crush on you.
2006-09-07 04:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by exotic69n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he met someone else, or he began to feel that you were too old for him.
2006-09-07 04:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a game player. Find someone your own age.
2006-09-07 04:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes a bit of a wacko who's into the incest thing. sounds strange.
2006-09-07 05:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by tich1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's thought it through maybe thinks it might alter things between you?
2006-09-07 04:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he got cold feet , or just wanted to let you down gently after he changed his mind
2006-09-07 04:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by Cj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋