There are 2 question I am curious to find out...One is for men is it cheating for your girlfriend to be with another woman? Is there anything wrong with that? And second, is it shameful to get turned on by someone watching you have sex? The first is something I want to do, I cant say if there was a beatiful woman naked infront of me I would be able to resist and I don't belive that it would be cheating on my bf....the second I have done before and I enjoyed it its like putting on a show...eather way my I had this discusion with my bf and he thinks I have no morals and I should be shameful, and I can't understand why!? Do you out there think there is something wrong with me?
2006-09-07 03:51:51 · 30 answers · asked by Sandra 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Yes it's cheating, UNLESS he gives you permission and is allowed to watch/participate!
2. If being watched while you get it on gets you off then there's nothing wrong with it, as long as everyone agrees to it.
3. You bf is a prude and not right for you! Dump his A$S and find someone more sexually compatible. You will be happier!
2006-09-07 03:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with you. But, yes having sex with another woman would still be cheating. You may just be with the wrong guy. That could be where all your troubles are coming from. As for someone else watching you having sex, why not get a large mirror and watch yourself? It might help where your boyfriend is concerned. And it will still give the effect of being watched. Only it will be you doing the watching. It might give you an added thrill. Goold Luck to you.
2006-09-07 11:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To ur 1st question i will say there should not be any thing wrong if she has any relation with another women occasionally, provided they are not long term relations and are only for just a change of taste or some different varitey to experience.This way she can apply new ways to her boyfriend and give more enjoyment to him
Answer to ur 2nd question is, why one should be ashamed of that.? I would rather say that it is enjoyment bothways if ur watching others having sex or other swatching you having sex. Its gives an excitment and thrill if you know that someone is watching you from a distance.
Finally i would say there is nothing wrong with you and you are absolutely a healthy and normal person.
2006-09-07 11:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry girl, cheating is cheating. It doesn't matter if it's someone of the same gender or another species. When you commit yourself to another person, you put trust and loyalty on the line when you even think about other pastures. Most people believe that intimacy is just that intimate. In case I've lost you; that means private. We all have morals, you just define yours differently than your bf. That will lead to trouble so either conform to his ideas or move on.
2006-09-07 11:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys don't think it is cheating if you are with a woman. Most of them if they are honest, would love to join in. Maybe you need to find another boyfriend. It sounds as that if you continue the way you are, you might have to anyway. There are other guys out there that would be happy to be with you and how you like your lifestyle to be.
Good luck!
2006-09-07 10:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. It is cheating if you sleep with a woman behind your bf's back. Just tell him and I'm sure...if he's a red-blooded american boy...he'll be happy and excited about the thought.
2. It's perfectly normal to get excited about sex in front of others. We've done it many times...and the danger of doing it in public is even more exciting!
You're a normal person. Just be open and honest with your BF.
2006-09-07 15:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screwing anyone outside of your relationship is a no-no. Whether it be male or female. If you want sex from others break up with him first. It's not fair to him to have to put up with it if it makes him uncomfortable.
Exhibitionism is a bit different as there is not touching involved. And yet again if your BF is uncomfortable with this, you should seek out someone who is willing to satisfy your perversions.
Another words, you're obviously not a good match for him sexually.
2006-09-07 10:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with you at all. Women are beautiful, now whether its cheating or not, depends on you and your bf. It is a turn on to be watched having sex, I have done it, and loved it.
2006-09-07 10:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you because it's not shameful or wrong. I would like to do this any time. Just talk about it with your bf and if he doesn't like any of it then he's not the right guy for you. Good Luck!
2006-09-07 11:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by pinkberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
answer to number 1 question is yes it is cheating but if you let your b/f join in the fun then it wouldn't be as you would both be willing participants
answer to number 2 question is its only shamefull if you or you partner think it is otherwise what goes on behind closed doors is nobody elses business and if being watched is your turn on then go for it aslong as your partner doesnt mind being watched
2006-09-07 12:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by mr_grumpy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋