2006-09-07 03:42:55 · 21 answers · asked by Chuchie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yup , at lease for 99% of them !!
2006-09-07 03:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not Always true...I "Cheated" on my boyfriend of 3 years b/c the way he treated me, I didn't see it going anywhere past high school. We were separated for 18 months, and recently got back together last X-mas eve. I loved him so much but didn't feel he treated me right, plus w/ the negative comments from my "girls" on how he's such a Dog or whatever...But Being away from him all that time and still being in LOVE w/ him only proved to me that he was very special. We're now happier than ever, he treats me like a princess, and I know I'll never cheat again b/c he really means a lot to me...I just had to figure that out the hard way. "Don't know what u got til it's gone"...Now we're planning to get engaged next year :-) BUT I guess I'm that 1% that won't cheat again. Some learn...and unfortunately others don't....BUT on the other hand, I know he has trust issues w/ me now. So just dont' do it in the first place. If you're not happy, just break up.
2006-09-07 11:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few people who honestly regret cheating. The guilt is overwhelming or the experience wasn't as hot as they thought it would be. But these people are far and few between. Since you can never tell for sure, the best thing to do is to just get out of the relationship. If they don't want you to leave, walk away and let them think about what they did for a while. If they go after you, can't live without you, will do anything you ask, cry and beg for you to come back, and swear it was a mistake and will never happen again, then maybe they're truely sorry. Only time can tell for sure..
2006-09-07 10:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by ☆skyblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a nice saying but that isn't always true. People can change just like people can repent.
A cheater need love to and one day they will come upon a relationship that they will truly adore and be totally in love with that person and wouldn't even think of betraying the trust of such person.
People sometimes cheat when their not happy with what they have but when they find someone who truly captures their heart, they act accordingly.
In my opinion, you can't be all that happy in your relationship if your are cheating within it.
2006-09-07 10:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my very own personal experience, yes - once a cheater, always a cheater. and once the trust is gone from a relationship it's nearly impossible to get it back. if he's late or you don't know where he is, you will always be going "who is he with". if he is on the phone & you don't knwo who with, you'll think it's another woman. etc. hell of a way to live . . .
2006-09-07 10:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, that is not very forgiving, but it is true in some cases.
My friend's husband is a pilot, constantly gone, and had an affair for 1 1/2 yrs. Even after they were trying to work it out, with 2 kids at home, he still kissed another girl. So in his case, yea, he's going to cheat.
But being with somebody before you actually break up with the first boyfriend, not neccesarily, because you aren't satisfied in your current relationship, and you changed it. I don't consider that cheating, just moving on to greener pastures.
2006-09-07 10:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on who they are or who they are with, there is never a sure answer for things like this.
Some men have cheated on women that they really didn't love and when they finally met that special person they felt completely satisfied and never desired another woman.
Some men go through a phase when they are young they cheat but once they get some life experience they realize that they should appreciate what they already have and stop cheating.
Then there are some that just continue to cheat, that's just how they are made or they just never meet that woman that is enough for them.
2006-09-07 10:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The statement itself is untrue. Just because a person cheated once doesn't mean they'll necessarily cheat again. It's about choice, whether they'll choose to or not. I think it depends on what made them cheat. Those who cheat for self- cheat just to satisfy their personal urges- will more than likely cheat again. However, someone who cheats out of anger or revenge, may only cheat once, enough to feel better about the situation or make someone else hurt.
2006-09-07 11:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I dont believe this at all. Behaviors change over the years for different reasons. Some people cheat because they haven't found what they are looking for and once they do then they never think of cheating again.
I think of some of the stuff I did in college...I would never do again.
2006-09-07 10:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, in my book once a cheater will never be fully trusted.
2006-09-07 10:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Cheating is like gambling at the casino. You now its wrong, but it's fun and exciting and you will keep doing it because it's addictive.
2006-09-07 10:47:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋