2006-09-07 03:34:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure it's normal - & it feels good too. instead of being paranoid about what normal is, enjoy the fact that your girlfriend feels comfortable enough with you to pleasure herself in front of you. that's a very private thing & she obviously has achieved a comfort level with you that allows her to just completely be herself. rejoice in her femininity & her sexuality!!!
2006-09-07 03:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely normal. And despite what is being said here by some other people, it doesn't necessarily mean you aren't pleasuring her properly. If you are working on her "bean" and you are quite sure she enjoys it, then all she is doing is trying to reach orgasm with you inside of her. Or intensify her orgasm. Some women can't climax with vaginal stimulation only. And, very few men successfully stimulate the "bean" while penetrating at the same time. Be glad you are with a woman who is so open.
2006-09-07 10:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Genevieve 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal, you may not be hitting her g-spot so thats how she climaxes, by clitoral stimulation. Dont feel bad tho, I dont think anyone has ever found my g-spot. But next time why dont you try "flicking her bean" lol thats a funny way to put that, never heard it before.
2006-09-07 10:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by MANDEE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where I live, 'flicking a bean' means flicking a booger. If your girlfriend flicks boogers while having sex, you might want to look around for a new piece of patch.
2006-09-07 10:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by Nascarcrazy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's completely normal. Most women don't orgasm internally. The most common orgasm is clitoral, which if you don't know is locate outside the vagina within the labia. You might not pay enough attention to her clit for her to orgasm, or maybe she likes the way she does it better. It's not offensive really, my husband says it turns him on.
You can cause her to have internal orgasms if you hit the g-spot. It's not very deep inside and you can massage it with the tip of your finger. You can also purchase a g-spot wand or vibe that will hit the spot as well. Most adult stores sell them. You can also get them online. You'll find the link to one of my favorite toy sites below. Good Luck to you.
http://www.handyvibrations.com
2006-09-07 11:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mary J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice Question
2006-09-07 10:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by Conservative Texan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its normal. Some women need that or just really enjoy it. Try to do it for her. If she would rather just do it herself because you can't read her mind and know exactly how she feels and what spot to hit, don't take it personally.
2006-09-07 10:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Chris D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's very normal. Females often need more than vaginal stimulation to have an orgasm. If this bothers you, you may want to suggest going from behind so you can reach down and do it for her. I bet she would enjoy that more!!!!
2006-09-07 10:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by sunshineasd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She can flick it with me anytime she likes
2006-09-07 10:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not "normal"; but its a good thing. Very little women are comfortable doing that infront of their boyfriends/partners; not only would I not think its wierd, I would actually encourage it.
2006-09-07 10:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋