she knew he liked her, they didnt sleep together but fooled around, then she made him stop becuase she felt horrible, and is now 100% certain about me, but now I DONT know.
2006-09-07 03:10:51 · 40 answers · asked by Irish ME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have talked about it, and she knows how i feel, maybe i just have a hard time letting go, becuase I was sure about her, up until then.
2006-09-07 03:20:34 · update #1
Oh and one more thing, at first she told me she was drunk and high, but then her friend told me the truth , so a HUGE lie about it as well.
2006-09-07 03:22:50 · update #2
Your girl is using that sorry story for an excuse. Nobody should have to go and fool around with someone else to make sure the person their with is the one. That is just bull!!! Nobody has to tell a person when they have found the one, they just know it deep down in their heart. She only said this to you to make the situation seem like it had some good meaning as to why she needed to cheat. Don't be crazy and believe this. She will do this same thing to you again. You will never be able to trust her again, and the relationship will see a lot more hard times. Things won't be the same. If you want to forgive her that's fine, but don't go back to her. You sound like a very great guy and you deserve a woman that is going to appreciate you and all the love you have to offer. There are so many great women out there that would love to have you. Sometimes situations happen and we don't understand why they had to happen the way they did. For example: Your situation with yor girlfriend cheating on you. This might be a blessing for you that she did because the real woman your meant to be with is probably out there waiting for you to come and carry her away. Don't fall for her crying and how much she's sorry because she's only trying to make you feel bad. If you do take her back you run a really high risk of having this same thing happen again.
2006-09-07 03:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First off.....she didn't make him stop cuz she felt horrible, they went all the way. Secondly.... it wasn't to find out if you were The One, she's was just crushin' on him and curious and come to find out it wasn't all she thought it would be so now she wants your forgiveness so she doesn't regret what she did that much!!! I cannot tell you how often i have heard this same situation and the truth will come out in the end.
but if you think you could work it out and not hold that over her head for the rest your time being with her, then give it a shot. but if it's gonna pop up in every arguement i would say don't even try it cuz it will never work.
2006-09-07 03:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK here's the deal....
If she truly loved you and respected you she would not have even fooled around. If in fact that's all that happened. Trust is a powerful thing and without it.... What do you have?.... Doubt... Every time from this point on when you call her and she dont answer or when she claims she's hanging out with friends or going shopping with family...... You'll be wondering.... Is she cheating on me? She's not trying to get you to forgive her because she loves you.... She's trying to get you to forgive her to ease her conscious.... Now the ball is in your court though. You now have the upper hand on her for a while if you so wish to play that card. But I think you know what you have to do..... Good Luck!
2006-09-07 04:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by drifet_18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See we girls often wonder why we are with a certain person we start to think could we marry him could we be 100% certain about him? The question is NO. WE are never ceratin unless youo no he is the one. Girls test that theory all the time. We give you test if you thin k were beautiful are we smart, are you repulsed by us passing gas. This situation is hard. You have every right to be mad. The best thing for this situation is just sit down and talk about. Don't yell or try to put her down. Ask her why she wasn't sure. And work on it. A relation ship is a struggle through and through. But it is times liek this that you have to fight to the death. Good luck on women probablem.
2006-09-07 03:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by Heather B 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that if you truly love this girl then give her a second chance! I know that people make mistakes and she loved you enough not to sleep with the other dude. It's up to you...you should know what you want! There is no point staying together if you don't think it will last
2006-09-07 03:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you have been the one for her if she was able to cheat on you in the first place. That has to be lamest excuse I have ever heard!
If you take her back your relationship will never be the same again. Find another girl, you're obviously not supposed to be together
2006-09-07 03:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by cheeky_delinquent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is sure you are her one. I tell you my friend she is not your one. If she was she would have never cheated on you. Why live under the fear that she will cheat on you all the time? She is most likely to cheat in the future that she has this experience.
She will cheat before marriage and after marriage. Move on my friend. There are better things in life.
2006-09-07 03:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a whole lot of BS......relationships are not really like going to a restaurant and ordering your food and then wanting to taste the neighbours dish to decide which is better. Sometimes the others persons's 'dish' looks inviting but you've already ordered so enjoy your meal. Besides, you came to the restaurant knowing what you wanted to eat......
2006-09-07 03:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by sensa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO dont let her fool you they slept together she didnt make him stop he was just a bad lay thats why shes so certin about you now. i cant tell u what to do do what ever you feel you need to but know what i just said is true!
2006-09-07 03:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is for the weak. She's just going to see you as a door mat to walk on, and she'll do it again with the next guy she thinks is hot. Break up with her.
2006-09-07 03:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by joe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋