i was invited to go for a week-end camping trip with my ex and his new wife we all get along, but there will only be one tent and we will all have to share it. he is the one that invited me to go, but did so in front of her. do you think if i agree to go i would be pushing her a little to far.
2006-09-07 03:03:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i wouldn't go i understand your ex is your friend but don't you want to move on with your life! way are you hanging on to that glips of past! I personaly wouldn't hang out with them much either. even if everything is all cool. yeah it's nice to have friends but at the expence of the sisutations you will be putting yourself him and his new girl in.
with you asking you already know you shouldn't go so don't! remember if you have to ask yourself or anyone then the answer is no!
Now put yourself in her shoes.. you got this new man, and his ex chick who is cool keeps hanging around. I don't want to be the bad guy and say no so maybe i'll be nice and just see if she want's to hang out! oh but what if i see them close together will i be jeolous?
i wouldn't like it! but hey every sistuation is diffent! Good luck
Mad luv
2006-09-07 03:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont go!!!!!!That's really overstepping the boundaries when you take it this far. This guy for one is very disrespectful. I don't care how close you guys are he should never ask you to tag along on a camping trip with his wife. It just isn't right. This would be super uncomfortable for you and this other woman. Do you really want to be in a tent with your ex and this new woman? You had a relationship with this man, you two were intimate. You would have to look this new woman right in the face. Not to mention she would have to endure all of this as well I don't think it would be right and fair to her. You and him are over with and you should leave it at that. He should not be carrying on like you two are still together. Honey, go with your gut if it's telling you not to go. Put yourself in this woman's place would you want your new husband doing this to you? It's a good thing he is your ex because he's down right crazy. He didn't deserve you and he doesn't deserve this new wife as well. No man should be this disrespectful no matter what. Don't do it, be the better person and turn this down.
2006-09-07 03:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not go with your ex and his new wife. I can understand remaining friends after the break up but this a bit much. Even if he invited you to go, you should respectively decline. He should respect the feelings of his new wife more than that---if he is married, this ends your relationship with him. You should not go on that trip. Even if you get along with his wife, that's too much---the 3 of you in one tent---no way.
2006-09-07 03:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds really odd to me. I wouldn't go...why would you want to hang out with your ex? The new wife might be uncomfortable. What if they start making love when you are in the tent? Are you going to be part of a threesome?
2006-09-07 03:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did not object at the very moment when he invited you, then it may be an invite for more than just camping! You need to have a sit down with both of them and find out why exactly they would like for you to join them on this adventure.
2006-09-07 03:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, whoa, whoa!!! Pushing it. No, no no do not go! Talk about pushing the envelope. No matter how much you guys get along, the sanctity of marriage should be respected and the wife will not feel comfortable. I think I need a glass of water now!
2006-09-07 03:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really should consider the chance that he may ask you to goin in with him and his new (bit) in a 3 sum why would he ask you to go if theres only 1 tent ,so if you want to have a 3 sum go for it why not if you dont phone him and tell him to get a life
2006-09-07 03:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by rab_a_gee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask his wife if she is comfortable with you going. And take your own tent if you do- that would just be weird to share one.
2006-09-07 03:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel unsure. ask a male friend of urs or take along your best buddy along to this trip to make you feel at ease, while trying to enjoy the trip of this camping.. or better still say you cannot make it because you got plans already, come on alot of girls have alot of ways to come over it.. good luck
2006-09-07 03:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look she probably agreed to have you tag along for fear of not being a good sport. Please dont go and avoid straining her marriage, bet they really want to be alone, and your boyfrend wants a threesome, Stay away from the perv.
2006-09-07 03:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by Ravishing Rue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋