2006-09-07 03:01:13 · 21 answers · asked by bestofintent 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One night stands eventually lower your self esteem and leave you feeling alone and bitter. You ask why you are only good enough to be a one night stand for someone and sometimes you resent the guy/girl you've had a quickie with if you feel you want more and they just saw it as a bit of rough and tumble!
Commitment is a big yes for me. You feel safe, secure, like you are worth something and that your life is fuller because of it. There is nothing better than the feeling of having someone who totally cares about you and commits themselves in a relationship to you. It makes you feel special.
2006-09-07 03:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I am in love I prefer commitment,but with all the others I prefer one night stands,cause when I'm not in love with someone and I just like him,after sleeping with him I feel disgusted and I don't want to see him for a long time.
2006-09-07 10:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by candy_amethyst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One night stands can be fun, but overall, I rather take the commitment...just focusing on sex, sex with a partner continues to get better (and in most cases, kinkier). Where as one night stands, you bone maybe once or twice and after that there isn't much left.
I'll take the commitment.
2006-09-07 10:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i choose commitment rather just a one night stand! u know what a one night stand doesn't work out or it doesn't make sense at all... commitment is good cos u can feel that you are being loved by someone! isn't it nice? sharing love with one another everyday or for the rest of your life!
2006-09-07 10:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by cutie_me:)abz(: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those are 2 totaly different things! But commitment is great when yr in love. One night stands is great when yr single and in lust! Commitment
2006-09-07 10:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by camilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
commitment. one night stand, as it suggests, only lasts for a night and nothing else
2006-09-07 10:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by gweneth lynn paltfeir 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be fair I have always said the two are worlds apart...one night stands can be amazing because its all about the sex...it doesnt matter who they are or sometimes even what they look like! but at the same time when you REALLY love someone its a whole other experience!
2006-09-07 10:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by Nottingham man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hy gay partners daviieand steeviie before we met settled downe around 5 years ago we used to wake up to cute hinks when we were hammeredd the next morning and dident even know there first names!! when we met up with my current boyfriend we sat downe and hammeredd everything out, layed it all out and knew what we wanted in each other-- solidd commitment! its never ben beterr we had a few of them in the past that would say owe sorrie iam not gay bye! our just experminting right what in the hell weere you doing here then?/ we ended the bull, and found one another!
2006-09-07 10:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I enjoy one night stands with others.
2006-09-07 13:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never had one night stand coz ive never felt like i wanted to share something that personal and intimate with a stranger. i also think that sex is better when your in a relationship coz the 2 of you have a bond and a connection.............plus you dont have the risk of catching something!!!!
2006-09-07 12:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by cheeky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋