I 've know this person for five years and they've always had a crush on me. now that we are out of highschool and have met up again, he still wants to date me. should i or should i not? when im with him, i dont know, but when we are not together, i feel like i wanna say yes. what should i do?
2006-09-07 02:53:10 · 22 answers · asked by Redstarr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask yourself the question, do i want to go out with him?
the first response is usually the truest. if your on here askin advice, then it would seem you are at least open to it, yes? just a little unsure right? well, how about why not...if it doesnt work out, no harm no foul right? dont see the harm in having one date. use that one date so see if you like him
2006-09-07 03:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date him
2006-09-07 02:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by jon k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww...sounds like what I went though! I met my guy 4 yrs. ago and we dated for 2 months. Well, he was still immature and became an a$$ so I dumped him. Then the past 2 yrs. he was trying to get back with me. Telling me that if I gave him one more chance....Like you said, when I was around him I wasnt for sure but when not around I thought about how much fun we have together and he would make a great b/f. A few months ago I gave in and said ok. I wish I would have made that decision 2 yrs ago b/c I would have avoided some drama that I went through. Good luck
2006-09-07 03:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it out. At least you know him for the most part and he is not a complete stranger that you have nothing in common with, but don't find that out until you waste your time on a date! If things don't click romantically, have a clause or disclaimer with him stating you all can return to friends.
2006-09-07 02:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is yes or no.
If you've had that feeling all these years but could not express it until now (that the obstacles have been removed) then it is time to set your feelings free. Yes, go for it.
But if you are still confused, you probably need time to think it over.
2006-09-07 03:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by charmmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try going on a real date. Like you would any other prospective man. Talk to him and tell him your interested in trying to date. See what it is like and if he is a true friennd and things don't feel right you should be able to tell him that.
2006-09-07 03:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and date him ya'll have known each other for a while so you know all about each other just try it and see how it works out... He might wind up bein the man of your dreams!
2006-09-07 02:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by kbrobinson05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, all of this time of unrequted love built up inside of him. Sounds like a great romance to explore:) Good luck!!
2006-09-07 02:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with a date - its not like you agree to marry him.
You never went on a date with him? So this might actually be an eyeopener - go'n get him tiger ;)
2006-09-07 02:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by soulsurfer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah why not.. why not give it a go,, only worth knowing when the next day you would be total in love with a perfect guy who turns to be you hubby, but still why not..
2006-09-07 02:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋